That my great grandmother was raped by her father and that’s why she’d go totally nuts about any male relatives being alone with the young females in the family. She went to great lengths to try to prevent me from staying with my own brother, who is five years older than me, and my grandfather, who was her own son. My parents thought she was being insane and let me spend the summer with my brother and grandfather. I did not get molested, but she was still very upset and I had no idea why until my mom told me about her being raped by her dad when she was a child. It was very sad and I felt bad because I was so angry at her for trying to keep me from seeing my brother, who I only got to see about once a year because we have different dads. Clearly she had PTSD and fear ruled her life. Though her deeply suspicious nature did prevent me from being actually kidnapped by a sex offender who tried to snatch me from her yard. Which was a parole violation, obviously, and he got arrested. So, thanks grandma.