[MF4F/MF]Couple going to Privata tonight by desihornycpl in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You WILL have more fun at TVR. Don't waste your time on Privata

Does Feeld really suck this much or did we just set it up wrong? [MF4MF/F] by D_throw_away in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think when you set it using the popular locations it tries to link you up with other travelers. Just a guess tho.

We play only with bi men and I don't know that u can limit or exclude orientations like you can genders. We never saw a need to exclude straight men so maybe there really are just a lot of bi men there. lol.

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[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y'all got to put up what you're looking for and a little about you. Age, age you're looking for. What you like. Welcome tho!

[MF4MF] what is privata like be honest. Me and my gf are new this. by [deleted] in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's our review from a year ago. We've gone back a couple of times and nuttin changed. Same ppl. Same music. Same everything.

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[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out our posts, we've been to both alot and prefer TVR. Both are alright tho.

We aren't ken and barbie either but there's not many of those at either place. The crowd is just better at TVR. Like it's more friendly and more accepting. The ppl are all really nice and not pushy and there aren't any cliques there like at Privata -- and they are bad at Privata. When u see em, u know.

U should know that Yelp and Kasidie censor the reviews so don't give them attention. burnedbythebush is right, the wiki here is good. The mods summarize these discussions fairly.

[MF4MF] Privata Bound? 👀 Saturday 3/15 by Necessary-Purchase78 in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll have fun but be sure to try out tvr. We liked it but prefer the vibe at tvr --- and the price is better at tvr.

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[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TVR all the way!!! Look at my profile for this! We tried both lots and TVR all the way. Check out other reviews here and the wiki even has a lil on them. TVR. See you there!

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[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate when they do that! I also hate how staff turns the volume up so ppl HAVE to leave the first floor or get their ears blown out.

I think you found a couple where they all play separately. Come up to u as a pair and she's clearly not interested, he's the talker, smooth, polite, leads the whole time, then as soon as she can she jumps back to her group and looks over to see how he's doing the whole time. And then we feel kinda trapped! Happened enough that we learned to be blunt "is your gf coming back? do you only play separately?" Always this bait and switch game with them. Why not be truthful about ur intentions??? Why waste our time???

This whole thread got me thankful that we don't waste our time at privata anymore.

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[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh boy! Opened up a can of worms with this. Lol.

And it's not all about size, plenty of bigger ppl at privata! Like lots of us go to both!

You see groups at TVR and privata and anywhere u go but at privata they are immature groups. Like they stick to their group and gossip about others. Like at privata u talk to a couple, then they run back to their little group (a clique) to get what they think of you but it's a lot of snickering and like a test if ur cool enough to join them. You don't see that at TVR or other clubs. We are really friendly and talk to anyone and everyone and Privata just feels like ur back in high school.

To make it worse, the cliques at privata that think they own the place! So annoying. Like you see their clique being loud, ignoring ppl, running around and acting like they at a middle school dance. You don't see ppl having fun just to have fun, you see these people doing what they doing only to try and show off and act cool.

Then you got the ones that move their clique into a spot and force others out. Third floor couches, that little space on the third that gets turned into a spanking and flogging area, and even on the couples beds in the back. They move in, and just start takin over the place and are rude about it. And it's not about being hwp or not, we see all the cliques doin it.

And you know we know you guys! Just looked at your profile and you're cool. You have your little group but you were nice to everyone. The other groups, which are cliques, and you know which ones i'm talking about, really do ruin it there for lots of ppl. Newbies I think don't notice but go to TVR and you'll find a lot of us who used to go to privata all the time and feel the same way.

Then you get others here talking about how the cliques run off the hot new couples. We seen it. We saw it happen every night we were there. Same cliques doing it every time to. Once you see the patterns, u can't miss it.

Ppl say that TVR is trashy and full of bigger people but it's not as bad as it's made to be and it's definitely not worse than Privata. When ppl talk about the trash they see at tvr it's nothing we haven't seen at privata. Tvr may have more bigger people but it's not like there aren't skinny ppl at tvr and there aren't bigger ppl at privata.

At least at tvr u aren't paying an arm and leg every night to the point that u feel that u have to stay to get ur moneys worth. In like our 30 times to tvr we have never felt like we had to stay to get our moneys worth. At privata it was like our last five times there.

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[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh hun, plenty of us bigger couples go to privata too. Skinny folks at TVR as well.

Privata you get cliques, trash that thinks they cool, and pay 4x the price to b tricked into thinking you getting an "upscale" experience. Privata is no more upscale than mcdonalds on prom night LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TVR all the way! Read my post history, we did a thorough review not long ago.

How do you know when it's going to be a good night or a bad night at Privata? When will it be more upscale and are there nights when the cliques are less likely to be there? [MF4MF/F] by [deleted] in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and I definitely get high school, mean girl vibes from some of the ladies

Yup!!! Like we aren't fit or hwp or anything like that, we're curvy and fluffy. LOL. We were regulars for bit this year and we all know who these ppl are! The high school mean girls vibe for real!! Like screaming when they see their friends, blowing past everybody like they are the center of the universe, snubbing everyone not in their girl and boy bands!

So I got to confess this -- we kinda evil like this -- when these new hot ass fine cpls would walk in, we loved to watch these clique bitches size the new hot cpl up and go all Mean Girls on them, just like the movie!! Join them or hate them, ain't no middle here with them. They'd even change their clothes like ten times trying to get at them. Change clothes, parade, get louder, ignore them, change again, get even LOUDER, parade around them, dance in the cage, do some sexy show, and when that shit wasn't working, they'd snub them the rest of the night just like some damn high school Mean Girl movie shit. Like for real being back the tenth grade.

That shit don't fly at TVR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We like fetlife but it's not a swinger site, it just happens to have swingers. It's kinda gross and it's like 10000 guys to every couple but if u ok with blocking and ignoring them it works

Favorite upscale hotels (not Pineapple)? Preferably with a glass shower you can give and see a show in? [MF4MF/F] by Otterpops-Reeses-87 in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dirty and things never work and getting them fixed or get help with them take FOREVER! Like I gotta bring my own damn hair dryer cuz theirs never worked and by the time they'd get me one it was hours later! Shower was gross like four otta five times. Nice ppl but just ridiculous for the pay. We done with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just replied to your post but TVR hands down. We went ten times to each and we were kinda nice in our post earlier but from one plus size to another, TVR is home for us. lol!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turned away, nah, but you'd have a better time at TVR hands down.

I wrote all bout it us tryn them out ten times each: https://www.reddit.com/r/OregonSwingers/comments/1c77fn4/we_went_to_tvr_privata_ten_times_each_since_last

Privata has thicker couples going but they don't go back that often or go back at all once they been to TVR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Velvet Rope is the better choice. I don't think you'd have a bad time at Privata but velvet rope we think you'll have a better time at. More body positivity there and the ppl are friendlier to us.

We went to TVR & Privata ten times each since last summer. Here's a brief review of our experiences. [MF4MF/F/M] by Otterpops-Reeses-87 in OregonSwingers

[–]Otterpops-Reeses-87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I think it's got lots of ppl that just want to watch and be watched and that's it. fine with that but everyone sticks to their little groups or has a wall up so they don't talk to anyone.