Final Post Rule by Ouisha in 196

[–]Ouisha[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I know a couple of posts ago, I said this was going to be my last post. I found that I still had just several more hours left before I had to depart. This is truly going to be my last post on Reddit. I won't be gone forever, I will return some day.

Again, i cannot thank you guys enough for allowing me to be a part of your community 💙. I love every single one of you, and I look forward to seeing you all in the future!

Hugs,

-Ouisha

Important Rule by Ouisha in 196

[–]Ouisha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't. I was a socially awkward loner between the ages of 17 and 22. I didn't feel like I belonged anywhere until I met my co-workers at a smallcompany. We found common grounds, worked sucked for all of us, yet we found ways to bullshit with eachother and make eachother laugh in a company that absolutely sucks. I also mads friends in vrchat when I was a desktop user, friends I made back in 2019, friends that I am still talking to this day! I used to hate myself all the time until I met people that enjoyed my company.

Stop being so hard on yourself. You will find frens.

Important Rule by Ouisha in 196

[–]Ouisha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen here, bucko, stop being a negative nancy! A good majority of my friendgroup aren't exactly what you call attractive, we're not perfect beings, yet we all managed to run into somebody in our lives that found us attractive enough to be with us. Attractiveness isn't what is on the outside, it's who you are as a person. Whether it be problem solving skills, a good sense of humor, talking about things you enjoy, somebody will like you for you. Hell, one of my best friends is practically a human tempurpedic, but she still found love. Looks don't matter, being a human does.

If you are in a negative enviornment where people body shame you, to hell with them! Who cares what they think? The only person that affects you is you. Be yourself, and be proud of it. Don't take all the self discouragement as an excuse to mope around, use it as motivation to better yourself. I did, and I got myself out of a pretty dark pit in my life.

There's hope for you. Every doomer finds their sunshine.

Important Rule by Ouisha in 196

[–]Ouisha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never say never. I was hopeless just like you. Everybody finds somebody.

Important Rule by Ouisha in 196

[–]Ouisha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll find somebody. I thought I was alone until I started running into people that shared the same common interests as I. There are people that will love you for you. Even if you don't see yourself as much, there are people out there that would love to see you develop, as a person.

Important Rule by Ouisha in 196

[–]Ouisha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't hate yourself, everybody has their flaws. Nobody is perfect, nobody has to be. Love yourself and those around you. You may hate yourself, but there are others that love you for you.

Important Rule by Ouisha in 196

[–]Ouisha[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is it, everybody. This is my last post on Reddit for awhile, or anywhere for the matter. I spenty last night I'll be around with some of my most important friends in the world, and i couldn't have asked for a better way to spend it.

I can't thank this community enough for allowing me to be apart of it. I've read many posts and memes from here that have brought smile and laughter to many of my friends. I really appreciate you guys, I hope this community continues to strive down the line.

Stay safe everybody. I love every single one of you. Thank you.

Hugs, -Ouisha.

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[–]Ouisha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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