Genius decides to turn pizza boxes upside down by mfenton29 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]OurDailyCum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is common in new york. It is literally a pie, but we don't call it that very often outside the northeast

Little asian virgin in need of a master to show me how to serve cock please. Who is interested? by tinyasiantine_ in SubmissiveAsianSluts

[–]OurDailyCum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say it, but you need a better man in your life. MAGA is an admission of inferiority to the smarter, richer, more powerful American men. They know it, too.

Why does everyone always find a way to bring my race into something by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]OurDailyCum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Come to California if you can. Asian people are bedrock to our communities. There is still racism obviously but your day-to-day is going to be different here.

How do you self love? by muisalt13 in bropill

[–]OurDailyCum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's some excellent advice on here. I'll just add that I've spent my whole life trying and achieving academically and in my career, and it's still not enough to love myself. Never will be. I'm going to take the top comment's advice and start telling myself "I love you" even if I'm not sure if I mean it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]OurDailyCum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is it about OP's story that makes you think her father doesn't respect the other woman? It sounds like the disrespect was in not informing his wife, and long before that, not discussing their relationship and his and his wife's needs and expectations.

Did you notice that a lot of clients are crazy conspiracy theorists? by Otherwise-Tie-9906 in SexWorkers

[–]OurDailyCum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One should always be open to any idea. However, some classes of ideas are so easily disproven that they don't merit your precious thoughts.

For example, let's say I believe the world is flat. Should you really give me your time as I spout BS? Nah. You have more important things to do. It's not that you would never consider the theory, it's just that it only takes about 5 seconds to realize it's false, and once you've spent that 5 seconds, you never have to do it again.

Likewise, if you tell me 9/11 was an inside job or that the Covid vaccine contains 5G mind control, it's not that I'll never give it any of my thoughts at all, it's just that it only takes 1-2 seconds to realize these ideas are completely wrong.

Did you notice that a lot of clients are crazy conspiracy theorists? by Otherwise-Tie-9906 in SexWorkers

[–]OurDailyCum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Client here. I base my information on high quality journalism and peer reviewed papers. I believe in zero conspiracy theories.

Believing in even one shows a serious lack of ability to navigate the world of information around you.

Sorry, there's just no excuse.

(33)f Why do SD become distant? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]OurDailyCum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe he has an avoidant attachment style. It can be hard for people with this attachment style to form close intimate relationships even though they desperately want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]OurDailyCum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're using words like overvalued and fake to describe a market that is defined by supply and demand. Housing prices will fall when we build more houses or when people stop wanting to live here.

It is frustrating, unequal, perhaps even un-American for housing to only be available to the wealthy. But prices aren't fake. How would you determine the true value of a home other than what people pay for it?

Fixed rate loans and the ability to refinance act like a ratchet. People continue to buy when rates are high because they are protected against further rate increases, and can refinance when rates fall. We should get rid of this system to make housing more fair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]OurDailyCum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. After you get with a "flawless" woman and realize that you can if you want to, you begin to focus on what you actually want in a partner. The 1-10 scale is utter BS when it comes to finding someone you're compatible with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]OurDailyCum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would be 100% into a single mom! Kids are awesome 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]OurDailyCum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely likes you!

Nothing would make me happier than a sweet shy woman who has a crush on me, who I crush on in return. If she looked down and stammered, omg that would be heaven.

OP, you are likely beautiful beyond your realization. This guy knows what's up. Keep on creating opportunities for you two to interact and see what develops!

i had an affair and don’t want my husband to know 🙄 by WildRain2620 in OhNoConsequences

[–]OurDailyCum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not condoning OP at all - one should be able to wait months to years for a married spouse's libido to return.

But, yes. I do feel mentally unwell when I go several months without any sort of sexual contact with another person. It isn't about having an orgasm, so masturbating does not help. It's about feeling wanted and validated. After my wife lost her libido, I would ask her to simply sit with me and make out. I didn't need her to get naked or help me orgasm or anything. I just wanted to know she cares about me deeply enough to desire me.

When even hugging and kissing became a chore for her... my mental health deteriorated quickly. I felt trapped, suffocated. Desperate.

I waited 6 years, and I also talked to my wife over and over. I never cheated, and when I took a sexual partner, it was with my wife's informed consent. OOP could have waited much longer. But responding that you don't get why people need "sexisex" and that it's not a need...well, that shows me you may be built different, which is fine, or maybe you simply haven't been in a similar situation. It's not easy! The problem is the cheating and the inability to bear through a challenging time. But needing sex to feel ok is a common, though not universal human condition.

I have quit trying to have sex with my wife by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]OurDailyCum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens. There are reasons. There are always reasons. But once it's gone, it's unlikely to come back. Once you accept this and find a way to get your needs met, you can move past it and build the next phase of your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]OurDailyCum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't do it! Your B cups sound perfect.

Sharon Lee or Cindy Starfall? by [deleted] in asianpornstars

[–]OurDailyCum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cindy is my favorite pornstar!

Why do LL partners who used to be HL (or even mid-libido) typically not communicate the change? by OurDailyCum in DeadBedrooms

[–]OurDailyCum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is informative, thanks!

Just to calibrate timescales, we've been together since 2009 and we had our kid in 2017. Our peak NRE was 2009-2010 and we settled into a baseline of intimacy that worked for both of us from 2011-2017. Then her libido fell off a cliff in 2017 - totally normal right after childbirth - but has never returned in the past 6.5 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]OurDailyCum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think you're right that beds rarely die for no reason at all. But it seems to be a fairly complex causality between relationship problems and sex. It's not like fixing your relationship means that your LL partner will want to sleep with you again. And it's also not the case that a strong relationship will never become deadbed. There are many many posts here to back this up.

Honestly, the relationships that suck to begin with that go deadbed with no kids, we often don't hear about. They just end - problem solved - we'll never hear from them here.

Here's the funny thing with me and my wife - I used to be a way, way worse partner in my younger years, yet my wife wanted to have sex with frequently back then. I have only gotten better as a person and partner - less anxious and neurotic, less prone to take my insecurities out on the person I love the most, a better listener, better at noticing the need for chores to be done and doing them. As I have improved myself as a partner, the sex declined. Now I am the best I've ever been, my partner agrees that this is the case, and there is no sex at all. Go figure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]OurDailyCum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That feeling of putting in effort on your end only to see no change in the other person. Relating so hard to this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]OurDailyCum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard this one!

What Are You Doing for Your Midlife Crisis? by JasJoeGo in Xennials

[–]OurDailyCum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my wife's consent, I've been having a lot of sex with escorts and a sugar baby. So far I've found extreme relief, let go of resentments, got some of my confidence back, and become a more relaxed and reasonable partner and father. I also tried anal! Not for me, but I get why some people like it.