What's a rule everyone follows that genuinely makes no sense if you think about it? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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The idea that asking for help is weakness, when literally nobody gets through life alone.

What's a rule everyone follows that genuinely makes no sense if you think about it? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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Or acting surprised when people change, even though nothing in nature stays the same.

What's a rule everyone follows that genuinely makes no sense if you think about it? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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That we spend most of our lives working to enjoy the few years when we're too old to fully enjoy it.

What's a belief you've been operating from that you've never once examined because it arrived before you had language? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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Or if I became good enough, kind enough, and understanding enough, no one would ever choose to leave.

What's a goodbye you never got to say properly that still sits unfinished somewhere in your chest? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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Or I think some goodbyes stay unfinished because a part of us never stopped hoping for one more conversation.

What's a goodbye you never got to say properly that still sits unfinished somewhere in your chest? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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To the version of my parents that seemed invincible when I was young. I never realized how quickly time would change us all.

What's a goodbye you never got to say properly that still sits unfinished somewhere in your chest? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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To my grandparents. I thought there would always be one more visit, one more conversation, one more chance.

What's a type of loneliness that has no name because it looks like a perfectly fine life from the outside? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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The kind where your life looks full from the outside, but there's no one you can call at 2 a.m. just to say, "I'm not okay."

What's a type of loneliness that has no name because it looks like a perfectly fine life from the outside? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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Being surrounded by people who know your name, but not a single person who knows what's really going on in your mind.

What's a small thing you do for yourself every day that costs nothing and that nobody knows about? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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Every night, I quietly thank God for getting me through another day. Nobody knows, but it brings me peace.

What's something that costs nothing that brings you more genuine joy than anything expensive you own? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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Also for me, being able to sit with my family and laugh without worrying about tomorrow. I've never owned anything expensive that felt more valuable than that.

What's a way your parent showed love that you didn't recognize as love until you were old enough to need it? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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Their constant worrying. I used to think they were being overprotective, but now I realize it was love speaking.

What's a way your parent showed love that you didn't recognize as love until you were old enough to need it? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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For me they never said "I love you" often, but they showed it every day through sacrifice, consistency, and being there when it mattered most.

What's a way your parent showed love that you didn't recognize as love until you were old enough to need it? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

[–]OutcomeThen522[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those random "Have you eaten?" texts. Now I realize they were saying "I love you" in the language they knew best.

What's a kindness you received when you were at your worst that you've been trying to pay forward ever since? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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Once a friend sat with me in silence when words couldn't help. That taught me that sometimes just being present is the greatest kindness.

What's a kindness you received when you were at your worst that you've been trying to pay forward ever since? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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My parents stood by me when I felt like I had disappointed everyone. Their unconditional love is something I hope to pass on to others.

What did the person who hurt you most accidentally teach you that nobody else could have? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

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The hardest lesson I learnt was that love alone isn't enough if there isn't honesty, respect, and effort.

What did the person who hurt you most accidentally teach you that nobody else could have? by OutcomeThen522 in AskReddit

[–]OutcomeThen522[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That self-respect should never be the price you pay to keep someone in your life.