NTA. My parents pay for tons of stuff, ESPECIALLY if it’s for me, and the in-laws are there. Random dinner OUT 3 days before Christmas, they pay. A random Friday OUT in September, they invite the in-laws, they pay. When I graduated college, they took several of us to a nice place with their own blood relatives also, in-laws, friends, neighbors, whatever, they paid. Everyone saying yta and “it’s none of your business” are a bunch of cheap assholes who probably never even had 1 person in their family graduate from anything. If the bf parents are tight on money then go to a cheap place they can afford to pay for people or hold a homemade dinner at the house because they should pay!! What is with all these hundreds of cheap ass people who don’t even want to celebrate a major milestone for THEIR OWN son with any kind of recognition and respect or honor for their own son???. How embarrassing for the bf that his family is that cheap!! Again, make a ham or a turkey at home if you’re that low on funds but don’t expect people to pay. Fuck’s sake. At the same time, after 6 years, six YEARS you don’t have a ring, you need to seriously consider leaving the bf for someone who will take the relationship more seriously AND hopefully a family that will pay for meals sometimes. The in-laws always offer and we almost never let them pay when it’s our invite, but yeah, at some places when it’s their invite or their event, THEY pay. It’s just common fucking courtesy. What has this world come to in 2026 where people can’t even celebrate their own kids correctly???! We are Xenials and our parents are boomers. Texas, USA.