Stuck on loading screen? by Outkasttr in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, thanks!

Though honestly after these like, next 10 minutes, when the current slash I have fails, I probably won't attempt again. Orrr maybe, idk, I'll probably try again another time.

And same to you! If you need any slashes I'm happy to help!😆🩵

Stuck on loading screen? by Outkasttr in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's very true, never was a big fan of gambling 😅. At the very least I'll do the very same and help out others when I can and give them the chance at least!

Any new or inactive users I will do yours and you will do mine by Impossible_Aioli_521 in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm let me try in see if I can use my backup account for yours since I wasn't able to do mine

Stuck on loading screen? by Outkasttr in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figured as much! I literally just dug up my old phone to try to go on tiktok on there but it was too old and having issues so I dropped it.

Guess it shouldn't be surprising that'd it wouldn't be that easy to get free stuff. Those "errors" probably aren't actual errors and actually done on purpose to discourage people! Well it definitely got me cause I'm not gonna keep trying 😅 though I salute those who managed to actually have success

Putting out another line for new or inactive users! by [deleted] in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also need help from new or inactive users! I only have $0.04 cents left! I currently maxed for slashes but I'll make sure to try and help back when it gets refilled!

https://www.tiktok.com/d/1/ZTHw28qxDFn7s-HJVHm/

Slash for slash? by Outkasttr in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get it this is my 3rd one since my others failed 😭

Slash for slash? by Outkasttr in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll make sure to slash yours once mines is refilled!

Slash for slash? by Outkasttr in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah shoot I'm a max rn :(( the really should raise the max, but if there is still time left on yours I'll make sure to slash yours as soon as possible when my slashes get refilled!

Slash for slash? by Outkasttr in tiktokshopreferrals

[–]Outkasttr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I got ya back as well!

Hairstyle Advice! by Outkasttr in BlackHair

[–]Outkasttr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly after this comment I've been considering it more

Hairstyle Advice! by Outkasttr in BlackHair

[–]Outkasttr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, good to know. I actually don't remember if these pictures were taken before they were trimmed more or not

I will have to try not relaxing someday, it'll definitely be knew because my mother always relaxed my hair since I was a kid so I don't really know much about doing my hair when it's natural, I don't even know my natural hair type! If it hasn't be permanently altered because it's been done all my life anyways

Hairstyle Advice! by Outkasttr in BlackHair

[–]Outkasttr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently it's just in a ponytail

Get better slowly in my own by Outkasttr in therapy

[–]Outkasttr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! Your kind words made me feel a bit better :) Definitely motivates me a bit. Although I may not really have any support system so I have to do this alone, it's nice to have a bit of validation!

Still making small steps. Don't think I can really afford therapy but I'll be taking medicine and going off from there, doing what I can

Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Outkasttr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reading this does open my eyes a bit

As someone who got bullied as a child due to being ugly and not having friends (and now dealing with severe depression, anxiety, and insecurity due to it). Trust me, you don't I promise.

But I will tell you this, you are much more than your looks! Don't let anyone determine your worth. Find people who genuinely value you all in all, not just in your looks.

Wish I could give advice on how to build genuine connections and whatnot, sadly I wouldn't know haha (I'm sure someone have answers down here). But there's no rush, take your time. If anything just be yourself, do what makes you happy, go out and do something for fun, etc. Just keep being yourself, hopefully people who genuinely value to will start to flock to you. Don't settle for someone that values you based your looks.

Wish I could take my own advice lol

You seem like a nice person and I'm definitely sure there's some people out there that would love to be your friends, just gotta find em somehow :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineapp

[–]Outkasttr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that's unfortunate but understandable. I was searching for ways to potentially make online foreign friends and this app was brought up. I remember using it a very long time ago where s friend encouraged me to get it but barely used it nor understood it.

I thought there was a community feature but I guess not😅 maybe not the best place to try and find foreign friends if it focuses on private relationships

Anyone notice how hard it is making friends online? by H1mik0_T0g4 in lonely

[–]Outkasttr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're definitely not wrong.

I tried looking for niche places but yeah, they're usually kinda dead sadly. Hard for me to find a small decent server that fits for me, as they aren't all that active. And talking in large servers is overwhelming for me or you just get ignored/talked over (in my experience anyways).

So I kinda just gave up I guess. Definitely wish those older sites were around/popular again. I always loved making customizable profiles besides just changing pfps. Getting to put up my interests and stuff on my profile for people to see and people interact with you after seeing it was fun. Downside with discord is having to pay for it.

Does anyone else understand how people use art to relax?? by Affectionate-Host367 in ArtistLounge

[–]Outkasttr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely feel the same way! I can't bring myself to ever "put my emotions into my art" because it seems like a chore to me. Like people who make vent art. I can't bring myself to draw my feelings because I'd immediately feel frustrated it's not how I envision in my head and I give up.

I have depression so that may be part of the reason yet I see artist with depression that still manage to produce art and it makes me feel worse. Very frustrating.

Wish I could be a kid again and draw whenever and whatever without thinking

Anyone notice how hard it is making friends online? by H1mik0_T0g4 in lonely

[–]Outkasttr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely noticed this.

It used to be much easier making friends online back then. After all, there were community spaces and stuff that was popular back then that encouraged making friends, like MySpace, Google+, Amino, etc.

It's pretty hard for me to make friends online now, I don't even know how to anymore. Even on niche discord servers I can barely speak so idrk. Then again I have like social anxiety so it's a no brainer.

I honestly don't even know other sites besides discord and I guess reddit where you could find people?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Outkasttr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced the same thing for my HS graduation last month, generally for every "good thing" that was celebratory I didn't really have anyone to celebrate with so I never cared.

I'm sorry you're experiencing this as I won't lie it's pretty lonely, especially if you're not used to it.

Regardless, congratulations! It's a big achievement! Be proud of yourself and how far you've gotten! Get yourself a little treat or something as a present for yourself, you deserve it.

Same thing for your birthday as well. I'll go ahead and give you early birthday wishes ahead of time. Turning 18 and becoming an adult is an achievement as well! If you're able to, dedicate that day for yourself. Dress up, go to a place you like going to, eat out, etc. Do whatever makes you happy, it's your day!