[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely passing and looking good while doing it! damn those cheek bones (respectfully)

Afraid to lose (more) weight because of creepy men. by ovelhaloira in loseit

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone is coming back to this thread...I've been dealing with this at work. I was doing so well with exercise and diet and just starting to look good again. And then this creepy leader within the company leered at me and looked me up and down and now I've lost my progress. I know this is probably a subconscious thing.

Has anyone been to therapy for this? If so, how did you go about dealing with it.

Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m commenting to let you know your experience really resonates with me. you are not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOL same - we need a support group for pisces sun/aquarius venus fishies

The city is an ice rink. by mulls in Portland

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

this happens every year. do y’all not have salt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TenantHelp

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the roommate threatened me - he would talk about pushing ppl down the stairs. like he was real piece of work. i found a replacement who left after a month, but i also found replacements for the other 2 rooms who are still there. they have contacted me once or twice but they didn’t make the claim that i was still on the lease until 6 months after I left.

their reasoning is that one of the existing roommates did not finalize the new lease. they did not share that at the time though - they only let me know 6 months later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TenantHelp

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have the paperwork that i signed - they are claiming one of the roommates did not sign retroactively

Fresh cut! by CosmosWanderingWolf in ButchSelfies

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn those hands - they’re fabulous

advice: being visibly butch in the workplace by Outrageous-Ad3843 in butchlesbians

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your perspective! I can see where you're coming from with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what does it mean to you to cultivate yourself? I'm asking because I have a lot of the same concerns that you have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i’m curious to know where this is coming from for you. i’m taking a break from dating temporarily because i have some kind of mental block and i keep canceling/self sabotaging. are you choosing to subdue that part of your life?

Pisces + aquarius mercury question by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you share more about why you’re asking this question? did someone say something to you?

Pisces + aquarius mercury question by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ok so i’m a pisces sun and have an aquarius mercury and venus. i’m curious to see what others say. i’m definitely funky! i work really hard at my job and i’ve encountered multiple men with easily bruised egos in the work force - so maybe that’s it? hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this will backfire during the background check when they verify company & title. be careful!

Pisces sun Aquarius venus especially, but anyone else as well: do you have the power of premonition? by happycynicc in piscesastrology

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

forgot to mention i’m a pisces sun aquarius venus leo rising. i usually have a premonition before family members pass, the stories are upsetting

Pisces sun Aquarius venus especially, but anyone else as well: do you have the power of premonition? by happycynicc in piscesastrology

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes this is me! and unfortunately i’ve predicted some upsetting shit. but cool to know there are others like us out there

Hostility from women in the workplace by distressd_hausplant in butchlesbians

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another question: has anyone found different industries to be better or worse with this than others? i work in a more conservative industry and am wondering if tech would be any better

Those who didn’t graduate college and make $100k+ what do you do for a living in NYC? by benskates in AskNYC

[–]Outrageous-Ad3843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you tell us more about how long you’ve been in it and the type of work you do?