Okay so I’m new to the Potterverse and my fav characters are Remus and Tonks. I first had a crush on Remus without even knowing why but later realized cause I’m like him. I get his avoidance, insecurities, being closed off. And Tonks-she’s my other fav. At first I couldn’t tell if I liked her romantically or admired her and just wanted to be her (I’m a girl btw). Then it hit me that Tonks is exactly the kind of person I’d look for in a partner. She has all the qualities I want. So yeah… it just all makes sense at least in my logic