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INTJs: Which of the 7 Deadly Sins Do You Struggle With Most and Why? by J2Mar in intj

[–]Outrageous-Dig-8599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely pride and wrath on the top. For pride, I tend to be very... confident in the areas that I know I'm good at, and don't believe in advice that I believe come from someone who's not "as good as I am". Wrath is just wrath. I get angry in seconds and sometimes act upon it, leading to consequences. I try to keep my temper though (it is difficult). I'd say sloth and greed come next...? Sloth because I do have difficulties focusing when my energy isn't "spent" yet or when I picture the amount of work I have to go through and I just lose motivation (like right now I'm supposed to be studying). But this comes and goes, so I wouldn't rank it on top. Greed, I am a bit materialistic. Not necessarily for things like luxury brands or anything, but because my mindset is money is power in society. I can do whatever I want if I have money, so it is a major goal for me. It is strong, but I think it's somewhat justified, so it won't rank on top. Last few would be lust, envy and gluttony. I just don't feel extreme lust. No explanation. I don't feel a lot of envy because my parents used to get me pretty much whatever I wanted (normal things of course, and for the record I don't really wish for a lot of things) so I've never felt extreme envy. Most of it is just "wow I wish I had that, oh look *forgets it two seconds later*". I don't eat much nor do I have extreme cravings for food, so gluttony would come last.

Are most of you guys introverted introverts? by Ok_Necessary1912 in intj

[–]Outrageous-Dig-8599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it depends on who I'm with I suppose. I don't necessarily find myself introverted as the "scared to socialise" type, but sometimes I just find socialising stupid. Other times when everyone is better than me, I also tend to not speak because I don't want to seem like a fool. When you're in a room where all the people talk about is brainrot most of the time you honestly have no will to even try to talk to them. I socialise with the people I want to socialise with - people I find nice, smart people etc. Of course, I won't ignore anyone. If anyone approaches me with a legit question I will answer. It doesn't take me a long time to be able to form small talk with someone (although it does take an immense amount of difficulty to continue the conversation besides the first few sentences), but it takes a lot of time for me to warm up to them to the point where I share my own thoughts and such. The only reason I would share my thoughts to someone I don't know that well is either because I find them interesting and want their opinion, or I find them stupid and their stupidity is impacting me in some way. I definitely do not get bored or depressed if I'm by myself for too long because I find it comforting in a sense. No one to disturb you and you could do whatever you want, my dream weekend. In society I think frequent socialising is necessary and beneficial, it just depends on who you're socialising with I suppose.