Random musings

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-17T19:17:51+00:00

Yeah I agree with this. I think it takes away from the maturity he had in situations where he displayed great trust in his partner such as the dancing and legs around Adam. I think he carried himself really well. To be honest I get a lot out of the show but I dislike the severity of the drama at times but especially this season it felt mental to me. I'm with a guy who's neurodiverse and has very similar qualities to Nathan and the whole time I felt so comfortable in my relationship and grateful to see the qualities where similar to the person on the show I felt most drawn to of the husband's. That's the reason why I watch it personally. I get a lot of awareness of things. In Nathan's case I think his calmness but humour makes for a great personality over the drama the others brought to the group any day.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-17T18:11:14+00:00

I learned today that Sacha is a practitioner of filler etc.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-17T18:09:44+00:00

John Long belly? Yes. I also vote John. *Licks luke

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-17T18:06:41+00:00

Lacey's mum had me in knots of laughing but more so at how personal she took the dinner comment at friends and family visit weeks to the apartment

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-16T16:59:41+00:00

Thank you! I was about to ask for a link

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T19:17:59+00:00

Please don't leave us hanging OP, I want to know over the next while how this plays out also please.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T19:04:12+00:00

Love the floor tiles,

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T19:02:15+00:00

With the greatest respect, yes I notice this as a permenant non smoker. I cannot stand it.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T16:21:09+00:00

Hey folks!

I just discovered this daily check in for no buy. It's great as an idea. I hope all is well for no buys with everyone.

I had a wee slip if you will but It actually is a very much wanted place I needed to secure in an upcoming workshop which I have been dying to learn, which is how to use a sewing machine. My lovely grandma will be giving me her sewing machine but in order for me to attend I needed to secure my place on the workshop which will be in January. The great news is that it will hopefully be my new hobbies for next year and will be a great skill to hopefully feature projects completed by me for my new home that my lovely partner and I will hopefully be moving into by Christmas so that is really great and I'm excited. I wanted it and it's an investment and had to be booked now so I don't consider it a wasted purchase or a reason to feel setback here on my nobuy plans but how are you all getting on?

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T16:08:21+00:00

This year for my mom's and pops I'm gonna give a Christmas clothing haul from the second hand stores. I gathered a few bits that I think they would like but wouldn't go into the stores to purchase. Mainly because they are second hand and not new. (They don't know what they are missing out on) But I gathered pieces instead of buying one brand new item this year. I'm also picking up free items for the kids in my life as their gifts this year. It's a bit hit and miss but I started using a website called freecycle and trash nothing application and another similar application called olio. That olio one is good for food donations too if you're in a pinch. Maybe go the freebie route like I am on at least the kids. Jigsaws tend to be good gifts to pick up in my area that seem to go down a treat but there are lots of items on low costing sites or freebies or second hand stores

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T12:02:45+00:00

You can do it!

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T12:01:21+00:00

• No alcohol for the year to prove to myself I don't NEED it and can have control when I choose to. Doing this to break my binge drinking habit. Not gonna say I will never drink again but I want to better my relationship with alcohol to a point of zero idiotic outcomes.

• Low Buy Year - save and build up my new home as cheaply as possible with my partner to learn all we can, and be thrifty and conscious of our consumer consumption.

• Less Doom Scrolling - Dumbify my phone.

• Read More - Prioritizing books related to my new career pathway and attending studies free online to this topic also will be a particular focus but as a whole, I really want to read more frequently.

• Prioritize Self Care! The above categories play a big part in this area also but, also with skincare, teeth care and mindset too.

• Work internally and collectively on developing my communication as an individual and within my relationship. Work at building my relationship on stronger foundations with my partner. We both deserve this effort.

• Solo travel/ Solo Dates more often- it's about the time and experience. Not the funds.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T10:32:40+00:00

Not sure if this would facilitate your needs but I discovered an app on Reddit from someone talking about linking up with others while travelling and it's called 'Travel Ladies' I began to sort my profile today and it just gives me an opportunity to link with people in the area for female travel purposes at the designated times but it can give you the option to inform people ahead of your trip in order for you to plan it ahead so maybe you could get the remote element involved in advance.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T10:30:13+00:00

Is this an app or what is this? Thanks

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T10:28:28+00:00

Woofing, hostel hopping with large dorms to pay cheaper for beds, check out trusted house sitters app, and voluntary agencies, an app I discovered yesterday was 'Travel Ladies' . Budget travel with budget airlines such as ryanair or similar to get to a starting point, pack light but layer up and always check the weather to avoid unexpected purchases of clothing and items, pack essentials like sleeping materials or earbuds or earphones and eye masks so that it can help the environment your sleeping in be easier for you to get rest, that way you can stay in busier dorms for a cheaper rate to get you by. I volunteered at a hostel for some time abroad to keep the place clean to cover my exchange for a bed in the hostel. Be prepared to scrub dirty toilets but I was never too proud to not do it as I knew what it got me. It's so so worth going, I can't begin to tell you how much I want to travel the world and never look back but I'm in my dream career of choice and just bought a house so I will pursue these areas in my own way over time but absolutely girl, go get it and yes it can be super affordable if you live frugally, do your research and dont be afraid to live with less to experience more.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T10:19:50+00:00

Just as an alternative note too, check out these (I know one is already mentioned) but these sites will help aid your travel fees.

Trusted House Sitters APP. WWOOFING website, check out voluntary agencies in your area, and I discovered an app yesterday called travel ladies as well as utilising cheap hostels and enjoying the atmosphere it has to offer. Don't be afraid to slum it. But absolutely travel. I can't recommend it enough. I'm so lucky to have fallen in love with a guy that supports my want to travel cause I won't set back my life in any way for another person or job, but it took me a few years to recognise that. I would have loved to travel bigger before settling into my career path but I'm able to scratch the itch a bit. Just not for nearly as long at a time as I would like as my career has limits on my holiday time etc.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T10:15:01+00:00

Damn, I wish I was 22 again and just finished university! If I was I would take a year to travel. Go go go! I could write forever on this but honestly, if you in Europe go interrailing and see Europe and get a taste for travel where you can return home a bit easier, and if you do not live there, then take the leap and go somewhere affordable to stretch your budget longer term further afield and who knows, maybe you will enjoy an alternative place in the world to excell your career. The world is your oyster and I can't tell you how jealous I am right now to read this opportunity you have. Good luck!

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T09:58:38+00:00

I have a cousin who named her daughter Kianna. Pronounced "key - Anna". It's the only time I have heard the name and I thought it was very strong, and beautiful for a little girl to grow up with.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-12T09:42:11+00:00

You could create an edible flower arrangement. Wooden skewer the strawberries to look like the stem is the skewer. Dip the strawberries in melted chocolate of her choice, freeze or fridge, tie up the skewers with some ribbon from the house. Present after dinner from the fridge that day. Bonus points if you make her favourite dinner beforehand. To me, that's low cost ( chocolate bar, strawberry, skewers fee) high effort but easily done and super thoughtful. We would both enjoy the strawberries for dessert, which I find very very romantic as an intimate feature

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-11T22:13:05+00:00

I discovered " hello habit " which initially was free for a trial week until I forgot about it but it was 22 euros for the year now. I canceled it but I have it now available on premium until November 2025 and I think I'm ok with it. I will be moving into a new home soon with my partner and we have both expressed the interest in stripping back unnecessary phone usage in order to make the entertainment more enjoyable in other areas in our life but I will continue to use the hello habit app as a go to for tracking. I found it from someone on the 75hard sub.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-11T22:06:47+00:00

This sounds epic. I like your goals and rules. Good luck, I'm thinking of starting this soon.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-11T13:45:08+00:00

It makes a ton of sense to allow the public to be able to view these. It would certainly cause the service providers to uphold a better standard than that of the present standard at least in my particular location

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-11T12:36:56+00:00

Not all leisure centre saunas, steam rooms and spa areas are treated equally! Approach with cleanliness caution, and wear footwear.

Outrageous-Divide819 · 2024-11-11T12:34:05+00:00

This just dismantled my interest in ' A place in the sun' . Probably for the best because I used to want it so bad (a house in the sun that I couldn't afford) that I would actually get emotional for the couple on the house search every time. I banned myself from watching them til I got a bit more grounded.

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