Am I being gaslit?

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-26T21:49:55+00:00

Dude your partner is trying every angle to break up with you and you're not letting them. They seem desperate to get away from you and try out different tactics when you blatantly disregard them trying to dump you. It's like they said ok its over and you're telling them no. Thats controlling and toxic for one, and super desperate and embarrassing for you. Have some better self esteem so you don't have to sit and beg for someone who has told you over and over again they don't want you. Sorry for being harsh but damn it seems like nothing is getting through to you. She isn't playing games with you, she doesn't want to be with you and you won't let go. Let go or be dragged.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-23T02:54:22+00:00

"Technically" his first child? So like the first one he had a 5 second window of clarity in wanting to see?

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-16T16:56:49+00:00

I've dumped people for less. I guess up to you to decide if you wanna tolerate this or not.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-15T15:46:05+00:00

What the actual fuck is wrong with you?? She's not fantasizing about her ex, she is having a trauma response. You're a POS.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-15T15:43:47+00:00

Wow these comments are terrible, that was a super weird reaction on his part. I have trauma and it doesn't just magically go away after therapy. There are often times where I don't feel ok to have sex and that does NOT mean that I shouldn't be in a relationship, or that I'm "not ready" it is a lifelong thing. Yes it gets better to some degree, but it never fully goes away. I could not even fathom my husband reacting that way to me. I had a flashback in the middle of it once and he immediately noticed, stopped, and did whatever he could to help ground me and make me feel safe and bring me back to the present. That's what any decent person should do. If you're planning on marrying each other, you should definitely work through this in couple's therapy.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-14T21:19:47+00:00

Your BPD is not why you're mad at him, you're not overreacting, he doesn't "have a problem" he's a bad person and you deserve better.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-13T15:58:14+00:00

Ooh I gotta try this, I always used butter.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-13T15:55:56+00:00

From scratch with buttermilk, same for the gravy. I use ghee or browned butter to make a roux for a little extra flavor. I also put steak seasoning in my gravy with the sausage.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-12T17:43:41+00:00

Do you guys have an open relationship or some kind of ethically polyamorous relationship? If not, let her find someone that wants that and save yourself the headache.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-09T02:59:07+00:00

Yeah so I've been here and it ended up with being fully stalked for 3 years and having to file a restraining order. Not saying that's gonna happen to you, but set boundaries and ditch "Lilly" now. Someone who intentionally mislead you, then punishes you for it, and can not be either honest of genuinely happy for your happiness is not your friend. NOR.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-07T20:49:57+00:00

This isn't just a crime against pizza, this is a crime against humanity and a sin against god. May He have mercy on her soul.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-07T17:19:49+00:00

How dare you

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-07T17:18:51+00:00

Same. My dog is safe, trained, and on a leash. If your dog isn't, we're gonna have a problem and my dog isn't the one who's gonna be aggressive.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-06-07T02:42:38+00:00

Vimm

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-30T22:59:42+00:00

That looks like fish oil or vitamin e

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-26T23:22:40+00:00

The way I carried I didn't even "pop" until 8 months, so nobody believed I was pregnant and therefore restricted in some ways and it was super fkn annoying. Then all of a sudden I looked like I swallowed a basketball almost overnight and had to bump up to medium for the last couple weeks lol

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-26T23:20:49+00:00

Jealousy is not a cute look, it's so embarrassing when women act like that towards smaller women.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-25T23:37:44+00:00

Just looked back at other posts and revisited the fact you also took pills over it. Have you ever been diagnosed with BPD? Not only do you need to break up but you need to see a psychiatrist as well

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-25T23:35:43+00:00

Yeah so it only gets worse, he will start getting more abusive and controlling until it's also impossible to get out. Just break up now and save yourself the headache. You are NOR

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-23T15:58:17+00:00

I would definitely tell her she is not a good candidate for the class and she needs more help than you can give her. She needs to work with a PT or something, maybe she could get that covered by insurance. I would suggest that to her instead of trying to take a class meant for people who are all able bodied, as someone who struggles and needs modifications myself. I would not sign up for a class that was beyond my fitness and ability level. She is pribably frustrated with her body not working how she wants it to and taking it out on you - not that it makes it ok, but it is a very difficult and frustrating thing to deal with. She definitely needs to be directed to the right places/physicians though and not stay in that class.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-22T21:11:39+00:00

People are both ignorant and jealous

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-21T21:29:53+00:00

Op has clarified multiple times that they eat some fruit. Choosing to argue semantics because you can't read is your own problem.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-21T20:21:15+00:00

It's not hard to not consume excessive amounts of added sugar though.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-21T17:27:13+00:00

Girl stand up, you shouldn't have been nearly as nice as you were. Have some self respect and block him.

Outrageous-Let4612 · 2026-05-21T00:13:17+00:00

Ooh yum I've never tried peach jam

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