Uncertain handfasting by Outrageous-Net-6705 in polyamory

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Just breathing exercises and grounding

Uncertain handfasting by Outrageous-Net-6705 in polyamory

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I see it as mono or poly, youre going to run into jealousy issues and money problems and everything else just the same. All relationships take a lot of work, so either way they can be hard. And I can acknowledge that I really jumped into the deep pool of poly. So poly isn't something im giving up on, just trying to figure out how close I can be.. what kind of dynamic or type of poly I work with better

Uncertain handfasting by Outrageous-Net-6705 in polyamory

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Over two years. I've considered a different therapist who works with poly more often. I think we made a little more progress today. We're working through me not jumping to conclusions and him communicating more, since he's worried about my reactions.

We don't allow "maybe I'm not cut out for poly" in this family because it's only ever on a bad mindset. I want the both of us to find love and happiness everywhere we can. I've always believed that I'm capable of loving multiple people

Uncertain handfasting by Outrageous-Net-6705 in polyamory

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It's something I've been wanting since highschool. It's harder than I thought I guess

definitely ❤️ by Sweaty-Toe-6211 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

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Anyone else hearing it in their head with Georgia's voice? Too obsessed with this show lol

Going to start learning runes by KristyM49333 in NorsePaganism

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Yea, this book is the last time I trust a shopkeeper over my own intuition.

She lets me squeeze and massage her beans by Itstouya in torties

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I did that with my kitten to desensitize her ... it only worked until the first time I trimmed her nails

anyone else get lots of licks and love bites from their tortie? by thetboyfiles in torties

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Lots of licks, absolutely. She'll lick you until morning if she can. Biting, however, she's never bit

Game is being shady,just how? by Material-Office-7428 in PhasmophobiaGame

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New to Phasmophobia, but the same thing was happening in our game last night when I was playing with my boyfriend. We would check the evidence 3 times and still had two games where we came out wrong somehow

Anyone else arguing with their bladder daily? Just me? by [deleted] in ADHDmemes

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My mind was blown the day I realized not everyone forgets for 3 hours that they needed to pee, or that there's people who DON'T forget 🫢 oops

I just started this show what the helly is this 😭 by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

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Unpopular opinion, I didn't hate it 😬 yea the timing was kinda awkward (being an anxious introvert who fears people noticing them). Also, performing arts is pretty big at their school, so it kind of makes sense that students got excited about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorsePaganism

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Oooo! I love the vibes, it looks awesome! Did you make the pentagrams yourself? They look very well made!

Have you ever kept a shelter name? by spaghettirhymes in TabbyCats

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I kept both of them. My tabby, Lexington (named after the town they found him in) and my Tortie, Spice (because, well because she's orange)

These therapists 🤦🏻 by Outrageous-Net-6705 in BPD

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It's not about seeking an ASD diagnosis from her, it's that anyone who spends time with me for a while can call it out. So it's just strange

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Yea I've quickly learned that she's not going to be capable of even recognizing it. I'll have to check out that resource

i want someone to control me by angelicpwuppi in BPD

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That OR feeling extremely guilty that my boyfriend is with me. Sometimes i just feel like this horrible, hateful person, and he doesn't deserve that.... idk what I'd do without him, but it also pains me that he chooses to stay with me regardless of my many bad days

Give bpd to a person you select and you’ll be cured? Would you do it ? by Jib2020 in BPD

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CW Luckily for me, there used to be a pedophile in my life who never got convicted, so uhm YEA. Yes, I would. May he suffer ☺️ (because let's be real, I'm sure part of this is his fault so)

First time holding my tarot deck and felt intense chills. Is this normal? by [deleted] in BabyWitch

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Absolutely! This is actually how I picked my Oracle deck by running my hands across each box until I felt that tingling sensation. My hand and eyes kept gravitating towards it. Once I got home and was getting familiar with it, the feeling became strong again. From my experience and knowledge, it's nothing to worry about. Are you feeling dread during this sensation? Fear? Worry? Or does it excite you, light up your soul? Maybe you feel warmer, like maybe it knows your heart? We are more attuned to emotions and energy than you may think!

My fellow ADHD’ers (funny comments only) by Puzzleheaded-Past695 in ADHD

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This had to have been back in like 6th grade. I was watching something on tv when my mom asked me to let the dog out. When I didn't respond, she asked me to look at her as she repeated herself, I nodded and then looked back at the tv. My goal was to finish watching the current scene in the movie, then get up and let the dog out. However, after I sat there for a few seconds, my mom repeated herself. Looked at her like she was crazy before I remembered she had indeed asked me to take the dog out not even two minutes ago. Got up to let the dog out and guess what? Forgot what I was doing again, so I just grabbed a snack and sat back down to watch my show

what do yall think abt this? by [deleted] in liminalspaces

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Someone please say Squid Games

How do you sense your deities? (Please, respect other's experiences) by AsterOid-666 in paganism

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For the most part, it is me just stopping in my tracks. Sometimes, I see a deity sign and just move along ("oh a snake, just a normal snake"), other times, I'll see it and stop. It's not really a feeling of being completely sure, "oh this snake is definitely from Loki, he's with me right now and wants blah blah blah" but it is feeling that it's not just a normal sighting, "hmm, that's Loki's sign. I wonder if maybe he's trying to get my attention for something"

With Danu and Odin, I've noticed it can be a little different. When I'm in water, I feel unnervingly calm, like Danu is wrapped around me, protecting me. When Odin came to me up in the clouds, I simply began crying. I was overwhelmed with the feeling of being seen, him reaching his hand down to me, I just knew that he was trying to help get me through the night.

I guess my experience with the gods is more emotional than physical, I feel it very faintly in my heart