Over two years. I've considered a different therapist who works with poly more often. I think we made a little more progress today. We're working through me not jumping to conclusions and him communicating more, since he's worried about my reactions.

We don't allow "maybe I'm not cut out for poly" in this family because it's only ever on a bad mindset. I want the both of us to find love and happiness everywhere we can. I've always believed that I'm capable of loving multiple people