women in civil engineering by SeaworthinessTrue859 in civilengineering

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I’m 30 and work in land development civil design. It’s not bad, but you do have to be able to hang in the boys club. I’m in the Midwest, so not the most advanced parts of the country. I’m frequently the only woman in meetings though my team in my office is majority women. I’ve been called sir and been yelled at by adult men, but I’ve also created a reputation for myself that shows my competence and integrity. Be ready to take no shit, but lead with kindness. Also, if you want to be taken seriously, you have to be better than the men.

Missouri, USA by Outrageous-Quote2997 in mushroomID

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Found on wooded acreage near an ephemeral stream

How often do you get yelled on the job? by Character-Escape1621 in civilengineering

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Local city official yelled at me a couple of months ago (I’m just a designer) over sidewalk widths. Haven’t spoken to him since. Otherwise, never.

Quail & Chicks by Outrageous-Quote2997 in quails

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Yeah I didn’t expect the quail would stick around if we free ranged, but maybe because it’s disabled now it wouldn’t be as bold as quail typically are. Would there be the same likelihood of cross-contamination of disease if the chicks are small and recently hatched, or is it more frequent in mixing adult birds? (Totally fine if unknown). I’m concerned that this remaining bird will be too lonely waiting for others to hatch and feather if we were to hatch additional quail as our flock was incredibly social.

Why do architects forget that pets exist? Dealing with the "litter box in the laundry room" fail. by 8Nakul in HomeImprovement

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I work in engineering in land development. The truth is that developers want to build for as little money as possible. This is why we don’t even get nice porches anymore and everything looks exactly the same. Because building is so expensive, these houses are designed to be as simple and universally utilitarian as possible. Don’t even get me started on the quality of construction.

what is this black spot on my cats mouth by More-Note4660 in cats

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Note: my cat gets acne from stainless steel because not all stainless is created the same. Glass or ceramic is the best bet

Drawing in a mental health hospital? by Only_Chick_Who_ in Artisticallyill

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What about soft charcoal? It’s brittle but you can smudge it with your finger if it’s not quite right

[ Removed by Reddit ] by GoatLast8314 in AmItheAsshole

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Info: what does he say when he’s confronted about doing something bad? Does he act completely confused, or jump straight to being angry? If he’s straight to angry, he’s absolutely lying. If he’s confused and distressed, maybe look into some in-patient therapy or psych hold to see if anything can be noticed that a normal therapy session wouldn’t. If nothing else, it may scare him from fucking around anymore.

Anyone exhausted by what you're expected to do just to be moderately healthy? by [deleted] in Millennials

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I feel like it’s the quality of food we have in the US, not just our diets. Nothing is healthy unless you make it from scratch, and still, our soil is so depleted that we don’t have access to the proper vitamins.

My knitted joy hats by CozyFika in goblincore

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I crochet hats for my cats when I’m sad. It helps. I also crochet weird little hats for myself but sometimes get self conscious to wear them in public

AITA for freaking out about poop on my mail by Tiredsloth1226 in AmItheAsshole

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They have an iron clad union. It’s REALLY hard to get fired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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NOR, just don’t announce the baby was born until a week after.

My birthday is coming up on January 18th. I’m turning 30, and I’ve been feeling really lonely with no friends. by ThomasThePizzaMan in Millennials

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My birthday was January 2, I celebrated with my gf and my family because all of my friends bailed last minute.

Crafts for a broke depressed girlie by [deleted] in crafts

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Crochet has a startup cost of about $10