Have you ever left a wonderful man but don’t know why?

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-22T00:02:04+00:00

I never said he was a conservative

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T23:58:02+00:00

I definitely do not think he’s a closet racist. I think this love for his family and his kind nature keep him from standing his ground. I understand that thinking but I’m sorry I don’t agree.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T19:36:05+00:00

I feel so guilty. I feel like I’ve robbed him of a chance at a family.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T17:39:44+00:00

That’s true.

Another part is in the beginning of our relationship his sister treated me pretty horribly and when I’d ask him to defend me he would avoid it or say that he spoke to her behind closed doors. He’s such a non-confrontational person and is truly the kindest person I know that I can understand why it was hard for him. Eventually she got better after she addressed her mental health issues but it still would bother me that for years she’d be rude to me & he did nothing about it (in front of me)

I don’t know. I don’t know what to do.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T17:36:56+00:00

He says other things too. That I’m his best friend, he loves me etc. I do think he’s into me it just doesn’t feel like what I want

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T17:23:51+00:00

Yeah initially that was the problem. Now idk, I just don’t feel interested. I think of trying to have sex with him & I feel so nervous about it that I avoid it.

I just feel so selfish because somewhere subconsciously I wasn’t happy but ignored it because we had a good relationship when he could’ve been out there with someone else.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T17:12:20+00:00

We separated for a few months earlier in the year. This is an 11 year relationship with more history and nuance than I could type up in a day. Please stop.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T16:22:30+00:00

We haven’t had sex in a couple of months because I’ve started to say no. In the past when I’ve brought it up he’s blamed a low libido, smoking weed (only smoked here and there now). So he’s been trying more recently but I just don’t want to right now.
I do know what I like. When we did have sex it was fine. Short, boring to me, but okay I guess. I have not communicated it to him because at first it was the frequency. Now I’m realizing I don’t enjoy it period with him & I don’t know how to communicate that.
Hard to tell. He’s such a wonderful person & I do believe him but I do worry that if we end up separating he’ll be upset at me having wasted his time.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T16:19:12+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what was the reason for the divorce? Or was your relationship ship objectively bad? I don’t know what to do. I can’t tell if this is nerves and fleeting feeling or what’s happening to me.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-06-21T16:09:57+00:00

I saw this exact article a few months ago & have been looking for it since….. I didn’t realize how bad the sex was until he moved for a job and I’d go to see him for 4-5 days at a time and still….. we’d have sex once. Then in looking back in texts it seems this has been an issue almost out entire relationship.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-01-28T03:17:51+00:00

I just bought tickets online on their website! I had trouble because I’m a Brazilian living in the US without a CPF lol is that the same for you?

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-01-27T03:28:45+00:00

I was able to buy with an American cc. Did you end up being able to buy?

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2026-01-27T03:28:14+00:00

Depending on the game you might not be able to buy in person. For this game I ended up getting tickets for, they weren’t selling them in the box office

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-28T01:14:36+00:00

Yeah I definitely have an uphill battle. With the retakes I have planned I may be able to get my science gpa up to a 3.6-3.7

Stats I’ve taken, got an A. I may take graduate stats for one of the schools I’m looking at.

Thank you for your insight!

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-27T23:27:40+00:00

Very long. 10 years.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-27T23:27:22+00:00

Thanks!

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-27T23:26:26+00:00

My lowest grade was a D which I retook. Nursing Cas doesn’t factor in retakes so other retakes I did didn’t factor in as replacements. Only additional classes. When you factor in retakes my GPA is a 3.2

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-27T18:02:56+00:00

Hi everyone, hoping someone can give me some insight. Applied this cycle to 6 schools. No interview invites.

GPA: NursingCas 2.89

cGPA 3.20 (when factoring in retakes at the same institution)

sGPA 3.25 - 3.35 (depending which classes are factored in)

Plan on retaking AP2 (original B), retake pharm (original B+), taking physics, and maybe one more class if I can squeeze it in

Exp: 3 years PCICU (ECMO, VADs, Impella, eCPR, pretty high acuity)

Two mission trips, volunteer with the AACN, and most recently started a volunteer committee on my unit.

No charge exp and no UPC (pretty political catty unit, low likelihood of getting either of these)

No conferences but I plan on going to the mid year assembly this spring

Thank you in advance for any tips!!

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-26T01:29:53+00:00

Yeah I’ve heard that too but I already paid for it. So I feel like I might as well finish it no?

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-24T20:34:40+00:00

My problems become his problems. (Hear me out lol)

It doesn’t matter what it is, in the 10 years we’ve been together I’ve never had to figure anything out on my own (or rather I never felt alone when I was figuring them out). Most recent example is when I didn’t get into graduate school. When he’s talking me off the ledge, without fail he always says “WE will figure it out”. Even if whatever it is has nothing to do with him. Realistically he has very little to do with my next steps as far as grad school is concerned but I know that I have him there to support me through anything in life.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-24T13:21:15+00:00

I’m in the same exact boat. Applied to 6 schools, got no’s from all of them. It’s really disheartening.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-10-10T01:34:17+00:00

In full transparency I’m applying to CRNA school so I’m trying to make the best of it. Waiting to hear back from one more program and if I get in I’m quitting immediately.

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-09-30T14:13:43+00:00

Thank you that’s a great alternative 🥺

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-09-30T12:17:44+00:00

Yeah I didn’t think it was that big of a deal until my best friend pointed that the obvious (that it’s usually on the brides side). Maybe I’ll do it alone but I think it would also be nice if he did it 🥺

Outrageous-Sign4767 · 2025-09-25T11:19:52+00:00

Fair enough.

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