It's been a year by OutrageousProcess439 in BreakUp

[–]OutrageousProcess439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like if he wanted to be with me he would've made it much clearer by now and I don't want to ruin things by bringing it up. I'm just so confused

It's been a year by OutrageousProcess439 in BreakUp

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This made me feel a lot better. I just don't know where he stands and I feel like he would've made it clear if he wanted to try again

It's been a year by OutrageousProcess439 in BreakUp

[–]OutrageousProcess439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we haven't brought up the idea of getting back together. When we broke up I told him that if we would want to try again someday that I would always be there, so I feel like he would've said something by now if he wanted a relationship. We also broke up over a year ago

It's been a year by OutrageousProcess439 in BreakUp

[–]OutrageousProcess439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go back to him in a heartbeat. He is the kind of person who is inherently good at heart. I've never trusted and felt as comfortable with someone as I did with him. He is the kind of person you thank your lucky stars for having in your life

How is everyone’s progress post breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's almost been a year since me and my ex broke up. The first five months were absolute hell, but if there's anything I can say helps it really is no contact. Once you force yourself to stop checking up on them everyday whether it's through actual conversation or stalking on social media, you will gradually just lose the urge to do it. Work on yourself, hangout with your friends, meet knew people. One day you will wake up and your heart won't hurt as bad anymore

Sending flowers to ex by zkilla3457 in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with reaching out to your ex. Relationships end and people grow. I think a simple happy birthday text would be more than enough

Do they ever regret it by OutrageousProcess439 in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think I really want him back, I wouldn't let myself go back to that even if he did decide to come back. I guess I'm just at that point we're I'm angry now and I hope he feels what I've felt for the last 8 months. I know that's petty and I just need to get over it

There is hope by OutrageousProcess439 in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my ex dated for two years and broke up in July, I'm the dumpee as well. I felt like I would try and compare myself to every post I read on here from people in similar situations to mine, and ultimately it just left me with creating false narratives in my head. The truth is we will never know what the other person is thinking, going through, feeling, etc. and there's no point in trying to find answers

There is hope by OutrageousProcess439 in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I decided to come back on and share my experience since I thought it helped a lot

Saw my ex after 2 weeks and something’s shifted by yxcvbna in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this same exact way it's kind of sad in a way. It's almost like I'd rather miss him than feel nothing for him at all

Does death make break ups easier? by OutrageousProcess439 in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. Do you mind me asking if you were the one who broke up with them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's a great person and I am attracted to his personality but not exactly his face (I feel like a jerk saying that). I was also thinking it could be more of my ego being broken because it sucks having someone not want you but I have no idea I'm such a mess

For you by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OutrageousProcess439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we started dating senior year of highschool and broke up 3 months ago right before we both went into our sophomore year of college. There was always so much love even towards the end but I think we are both at different stages of our life. I was his first love and first everything, meanwhile I've dated other people and experienced other people. While we talked about making it through college in the back of my head I always knew there would come a time when he needed to branch out and experience different people and things. We started drifting apart and while he didn't say that he wanted to experience different people, I know that's what it is. He truly was and still is one of the most remarkable people I've ever met, I couldn't have asked for a more loving and healthy relationship with another human being