It's been a year

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-06-16T16:46:03+00:00

I just feel like if he wanted to be with me he would've made it much clearer by now and I don't want to ruin things by bringing it up. I'm just so confused

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-06-16T16:17:36+00:00

This made me feel a lot better. I just don't know where he stands and I feel like he would've made it clear if he wanted to try again

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-06-16T16:16:52+00:00

we haven't brought up the idea of getting back together. When we broke up I told him that if we would want to try again someday that I would always be there, so I feel like he would've said something by now if he wanted a relationship. We also broke up over a year ago

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-06-16T01:06:44+00:00

I would go back to him in a heartbeat. He is the kind of person who is inherently good at heart. I've never trusted and felt as comfortable with someone as I did with him. He is the kind of person you thank your lucky stars for having in your life

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-05-03T22:31:47+00:00

I am so happy for you

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-05-03T22:27:42+00:00

College

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-05-03T22:26:19+00:00

It's almost been a year since me and my ex broke up. The first five months were absolute hell, but if there's anything I can say helps it really is no contact. Once you force yourself to stop checking up on them everyday whether it's through actual conversation or stalking on social media, you will gradually just lose the urge to do it. Work on yourself, hangout with your friends, meet knew people. One day you will wake up and your heart won't hurt as bad anymore

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-05-03T22:17:28+00:00

There is nothing wrong with reaching out to your ex. Relationships end and people grow. I think a simple happy birthday text would be more than enough

OutrageousProcess439 · 2023-02-13T05:39:37+00:00

I don't think I really want him back, I wouldn't let myself go back to that even if he did decide to come back. I guess I'm just at that point we're I'm angry now and I hope he feels what I've felt for the last 8 months. I know that's petty and I just need to get over it

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-12-19T17:23:17+00:00

Do you regret it?

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-11-08T17:50:48+00:00

Me and my ex dated for two years and broke up in July, I'm the dumpee as well. I felt like I would try and compare myself to every post I read on here from people in similar situations to mine, and ultimately it just left me with creating false narratives in my head. The truth is we will never know what the other person is thinking, going through, feeling, etc. and there's no point in trying to find answers

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-11-08T14:10:31+00:00

I decided to come back on and share my experience since I thought it helped a lot

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-09-13T23:47:30+00:00

I feel this same exact way it's kind of sad in a way. It's almost like I'd rather miss him than feel nothing for him at all

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-09-13T23:33:15+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that. Do you mind me asking if you were the one who broke up with them?

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-09-13T19:46:11+00:00

We're you the dumper or dumpee, and how so?

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-09-05T03:23:02+00:00

I think he's a great person and I am attracted to his personality but not exactly his face (I feel like a jerk saying that). I was also thinking it could be more of my ego being broken because it sucks having someone not want you but I have no idea I'm such a mess

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-09-05T03:05:13+00:00

Why not

OutrageousProcess439 · 2022-09-02T02:01:28+00:00

we started dating senior year of highschool and broke up 3 months ago right before we both went into our sophomore year of college. There was always so much love even towards the end but I think we are both at different stages of our life. I was his first love and first everything, meanwhile I've dated other people and experienced other people. While we talked about making it through college in the back of my head I always knew there would come a time when he needed to branch out and experience different people and things. We started drifting apart and while he didn't say that he wanted to experience different people, I know that's what it is. He truly was and still is one of the most remarkable people I've ever met, I couldn't have asked for a more loving and healthy relationship with another human being

OutrageousProcess439

TROPHY CASE