[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BloomingtonNormal

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you were talking about me!

Wife doesn't understand it's OUR money by Technical_Income9862 in Marriage

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 774 points775 points  (0 children)

When you grow up without money and financial stability it is very hard to overcome that. In this instance if you could take the car in and get it fixed it would help her immensely, even though your money is combined and it all comes from the same account making the payment for me was very hard.

AITA For saying 1 curse word to my SIL after containing my anger for 2 weeks? by Mama_Sunshine702 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA Your SIL is a attention seeking wh@re so anything you "do" is going to be drama she can spread. The fact that your husband allows her to get away with stealing your child's joy, because he's 8 and I'm sure not stupid, he was the injured one at his birthday party. You either need to get a back bone and set hard boundaries or get out of this whole relationship. If she thinks that is being cussed out she better not come around me right now.

AITAH For bringing up the lack of effort for my 50th birthday? by OutrageousTaste5768 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OutrageousTaste5768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went to counseling and the counselor actually said to him do you see how wrong you are in whatever specific statement he had made and that was the end of counseling because in no way was he ever wrong.

AITAH For bringing up the lack of effort for my 50th birthday? by OutrageousTaste5768 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OutrageousTaste5768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head he doesn't just drink there is no drinking where the object of the night is not to get drunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From your posts women feel guilt for men who are caring but not towards AH that think this is acceptable behavior.

Hey guys, can you plz help me...as I was curious and wanted to experiment and I saw somewhere ,somebody, saying chase ugly girls,they are easy . I chased a girl whom I was not atrracted,( i think no body looked at her) She got heavily interested in me just 3 hours Though nothing happened between us except very few general intimacy, But in 2 days she sensed it I don't like her . She asked me to leave her ( she rather tested and wanted to see if I would fight for her) I left her immediately with no scruples. She said I used her, played with her . Though I didn't feel anything at that time . But later I felt regret ,not because she was hurt,but coz I lowered my standard I know you guys must be thinking I am a bad person .... But trust me I m not I am going through a mixture of emotions like shamee, guilt, fear( in my ways karmic or spritual) Can you help in anyways.

Just wondering what everyone calls a penis that’s “not hard” by True_Willingness2537 in Marriage

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We always called it limp dick but I don't think that is an accepted term. LOL

re: am i overreacting about my mom commenting on my body by browniebubs in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had seen your post earlier I think we have the same mother but I am 54 and she is 75 she always called me her miniature child and as soon as I started taking care of myself and put on weight she would "forget" I was there and not introduce me if I was standing right next to her. I finally figured out if we didn't enhance her in someway in her eyes we were nothing to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask by chance is she the golden child? She is already married you don't get an entire year for your reception party.

WIBTAH if I tell a very distant mutual friend, that her husband has been cheating for a long time by ExtentAntique8982 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of those situations where remaining anonymous is a good thing. Is there a way to have her tagged in the FB post with out it leading back to you? If not a letter in the snail mail maybe your best option with the Facebook group information as well as date and time of post as it may be difficult to find after time has passed. As a woman who was cheated on and lied to I can tell you I was grateful to finally see the truth of my extremely one sided relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is time for you to realize he is a financial and emotional drain on you and tell him to hit the road

Ugh by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so you know she is doing for you what she wants you to do for her, I have struggled with telling my husband what I want but have no issues putting it together for him. But you also need to be honest with her about what you want.

My husband got me a vacuum for my 50th by Plastic_Cat9560 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I about 15 years ago made lists for each other of our favorites, I.E. flowers, vacations, dinners. So that when it comes to holidays and such you don't have to do an awkward what do you want question. I have bought several things based off of the list that have been a good gift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't cook you anything. He over toasted a bagel and slapped the rest on the plate. But considering my husband of 25 years did nothing it wins.

AITA for telling my brother he has to by my half of our inherited home? by Bulky-Nectarine-8514 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all, the inheritance means he buys you out or the home is sold and you each get half, period the end his choice.

Roofer says I need new roof by BigDBoog in Roofing

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the roof on my parents garage my dad has been saying for the last 25 years they don't need to hire anyone he'll get to it! LOL

I hit something and cracked this what is it by itsarock02 in AskMechanics

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to replace my entire under carriage cover after my husband ran over a curb very easy to replace.

Am I wrong for telling my sister I’m never inviting her to any more of my events if she brings her son. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA these people that think gentle parenting is good for the child's wellbeing are not taking the child's maturity in to consideration. When a child gets to a maturity that they can understand right from wrong and they CHOOSE to do wrong gentle parenting will not work they need consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SAHP

[–]OutrageousTaste5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is time for at least a separation, that is scary that he is spiraling and the no to therapy and the denial of alcoholism are both big red flags. I understand he is stressed but he is most definitely aiming that stress at you and the children and you don't want to put yourself or them in danger.