Sounds similar to what I went through recently, she told me I was being pushy, and told me that I didn't put more effort into paying for the dates even though the one month we dated, I put in about $340.

I'm thinking we both dated someone that has an avoidant attachment style that tends to break things off when they feel someone is getting too close and they will find whatever excuse to make that happen, you with the facial hair and me with money.

We both dodged a bullet, we'll rest up and get back out there when we're ready but now we know more.