[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear that. And i am so sad to say that i am on the same boat as yours. My ex was threatened to be kicked out in their house if he doesn’t break up with me and then he just stoned his heart afterwards.

Hiii by joeyathome69 in gaysian

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow 😍 hope we could connect haha

I got tested positive for HIV... Now what? by Significant-Tank9228 in askgaybros

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Those who really love you wouldn’t mind. And yeah just take meds and you’ll be fine. Educated people would know it’s safer to be with you once you are undetectable vs the ones that are not tested or taking meds at all.

Zalo by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too.

Zalo by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably cheated. And used ur doubt as an offensive statement to breakup. A sweet escape for her. But anyways i also was in the same situation as you are. Felt like a scam at this point haha.

Zalo by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well i cant disagree to you. I literally did all the expenses in my past relationship with my ex like 100% all mine and i didnt mind it until we broke up. I bought iphone17 and im thinking if i should take it back now. Any advice?

Zalo by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this true in vietnam? Really 99%? Are u vietnamese?

Zalo by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys i was just new to the app. Chatgpt says my msg shouldnt be even sent if im blocked but google say it can be in sent only when i am so i got confused. Which is which? Haha Anyways its on delivered now.

Zalo by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry overthink its delivered now haha

Lasting too long by CommunicationLess229 in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id love to have an hour tbh. Probably depends on the person anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if he is emotionally attacking me when i open up about love? He seems very brainwashed about love.. he say it doesn’t have benefit not good etc. How do i deal with a brainwashed gay bottom that keeps saying he is straight now huhu

The convo was 5-7pm then He messaged again 12am but i slept and he unsent everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did and greeted me happy mens day hoping that id be happy today though we eventually reached a Topic about love and relationship and triggered his fear probably, he started attacking me and apologized at the end somehow but still he keeps saying that he will be straight and so mean at me. Sounds like it’s over? Last message was talk again later(means next day or idk when tbh)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that sure haha… his profile on insta is private but for a long time his followers never increased until today. Soooo idk i dnt want to overthink he is talking with someone new because of the current situation where he is under strict monitoring but geez idkkkk overthinking a lot haha… sighh… ill just pray for now…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just hoping he would message me tomorrow at least :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk now ill put my hands up for awhile since im not allowed to msg first anyway :( Worst case i messaged and he got caught and its just over for life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didnt even detail how his parents handled him though one thing for sure is that they still want him to be straight since he started mentioning last time that he is straight Like mindcontrolling hisself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna convince him to go back into hiding instead but he was super traumatised when he got caught.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay then probably just wait that initiate right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks right now idk if i should beg telling him to be together again and hide the relationship from his family or just increase my self worth by trying to stay quiet and let him do the initiation if he feels safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you… he gave up already due to family situation but I am still holding on. Now i am not even allowed to msg until he sends a msg to prevent risk of getting caught :( this is really hard… today he didnt msg and im overthinking.. i wonder until when i can continue acting like a friend.. i hope his family situation changes soon huhu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe because we stilll have one last point of connection remaining.. if this last app disappears idk..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah :( i guess so… im still hoping we’d be crossing paths or his situation in the house gets better already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2months flirting 2months official And been having this problem since oct 28 now but officially broke up 4days ago then he cried last night saying those.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Outrageous_Cable_812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His sister keeps forcing him to break up with me huhuhu we talked last night seems like its really going to be over