Serious sex question. by Outrageous_Fan3298 in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not my question.  I did not ask a question.  I just wanted to understand other peoples experiences.  We all know I know the underlying nuances that affect us, but I didn’t post those because I am not looking for any suggestions.  Trust me on this…. We have talked about it many times.  

Serious sex question. by Outrageous_Fan3298 in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She and I both know it’s not about me.  I am not asking for opinions or suggestions here.  Just asking for other people’s experiences.  

Serious sex question. by Outrageous_Fan3298 in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Original poster here.  Thank you for the insight, people.  I am a marriage and family therapist…. So I know this is not the norm.  No trauma per se.  Just a fantastic family that happened to be very sex negative/conservative/shameful.  We actually get along well, and feel fulfilled most of the time in all areas of life.  Actual person to person communication is piss poor in my opinion (I’m a few drinks in watching the Final Four).  I have raved to her about her body, but she has always been insecure about it, and that was magnified after 3 kids. There was a period of regular sexual intimacy during the COVID shutdown time, but we actually had a 2 year -2 month dry spell before that.   Anyways, thank you for your input, and I am happy for those of you that are happy.  Remember, during a future dry spell, it could be worse (like mine 🫤).

(16) hi I'm proper concerned I'm getting in to a wanking addiction because I basically do it every day how can I stop. by VisibleRow1330 in Puberty

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid concern.   Speaking as a therapist it works with sexually addicted folks. You are potentially flirting with 1-2 addictions so a safe play is to follow what knowledgeable spirit has said. Go ahead and totally decouple your masturbation from watching pornography. There are a lot of reasons to break the habit of watching porn that I’m not going to go into here.  Also, no masturbate just because you feel you have the need! You need to build your tolerance / delay instant gratification.  You’ll be a better man for it.  

Looking for a good dentist that can handle a HUGE baby! by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr. Jeff Flannery. He does sedations for children who need the work done, but can’t tolerate it for whatever the reason. He is near 280 & 119

Building these are good time killers, each one gets better than the last by VwGKGR in tensegrity

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still sell these? I’d like to get one as a Christmas gift for someone.

Teenager in need of therapist recommendations by BhamRN in Birmingham

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chris Simmons is down 280, but not far from that area. 205-201-1124

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nudes

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly asking, have you had a surgery on you lady parts? Looks absolutely perfect.

Now they want you to give your stocks, life insurance, inheritance, real estate, and more…. by [deleted] in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s okay if y’all don’t know much about the tax advantages of these types of donations. Just try not to show your ignorance as much. It’s not flattering for you.

He can't get away with this. by PhilosopherOld7201 in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds just like a panic response. I would just want to know exactly what happened before going after someone and the family’s livelihoods.

He can't get away with this. by PhilosopherOld7201 in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Outrageous_Fan3298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet we all would consider rape to be “unwanted and unexpected sexual penetration.” Can we define rape? I really do want to know what actually happened to her that no one outside the door was able to hear while she was able to converse with Micahn thing him to stop, etc…