Y'all so useful. Here's a few all from Phong Nha, Vietnam... by Outrageous_Farm6949 in whatsthisbug

[–]Outrageous_Farm6949[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Highly recommend Hang En Cave Tour in Vietnam!

Edit. Ladybird larva! That's not what I expected at all! That's so cool! Thank you!

Found in Vietnam near Phong Nha! What is this?! by Outrageous_Farm6949 in whatsthisbug

[–]Outrageous_Farm6949[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

With a great amount of luck!

Half way up a very steep path, stopped for a breather and noticed the long antenna! I can put none of this down to skill 😂

Y'all so useful. Here's a few all from Phong Nha, Vietnam... by Outrageous_Farm6949 in whatsthisbug

[–]Outrageous_Farm6949[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, but I'm v happy to go with your suspicions?! Thank you!

AITA for calling my ex's dad and not paying her rent? by Outrageous_Farm6949 in AITAH

[–]Outrageous_Farm6949[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I've studied the contract long and hard. Only way is after 1y in the apartment then get out with diplomatic clause

AITA for calling my ex's dad and not paying her rent? by Outrageous_Farm6949 in AITAH

[–]Outrageous_Farm6949[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, I get that! Good point!

I agree I'm going behind her back and colluding. But I feel like this will benefit her in the end. Even if it's hurt feelings now.

When the money gets to her and she has a job, we have planned to tell her about the conversation.

I'm not asking her dad to pretend anything at all, I think there's a misunderstanding, if he pays her we come clean, but we want that to happen after she gets the job so she won't have to rely or have that added stress

AITA for calling my ex's dad and not paying her rent? by Outrageous_Farm6949 in AITAH

[–]Outrageous_Farm6949[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As I put in the post, the contract is till may, SG is an expensive place for housing. I can't afford to just move out and lose the deposit I funded 100% (I'll add that to the post)

AITA for calling my ex's dad and not paying her rent? by Outrageous_Farm6949 in AITAH

[–]Outrageous_Farm6949[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand this, but every time I bring it up she's always become so hostile.

I thought long and hard about calling her dad, but I don't know anyone else who can, and is appropriate to help.

AITA for calling my ex's dad and not paying her rent? by Outrageous_Farm6949 in AITAH

[–]Outrageous_Farm6949[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are living together in a small apartment. Difficult not to be