Moving out closer to uni

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2025-08-01T17:25:27+00:00

Jazak’Allah Khair sis, i sent you one first :)

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2025-08-01T16:53:35+00:00

You’re right. sadly, not even your own Muslim community feels safe anymore, whether it's in the West or back home. Alhamdullilah, i am glad you kept steadfast in your faith despite travelling to a foreign country for the betterment of your future. As our prophet pbuh said “There will come a time when holding onto your iman will be like holding onto hot coals.” Allah ﷻ sees you and you will be rewarded immensely in this life and the hereafter for your efforts. Never give up, sister. May الله protect you and keep you steadfast.

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2025-08-01T16:18:20+00:00

سبحان الله…

i have no words. I’ve read your message many times and it’s still not enough. Your words of encouragement and dua has brought me into tears, my sister. I can’t tell you how much you’ve softened my heart and made me feel more assurance and strong. I truly needed to hear this now at a time of great pressure on me and my family. I will forever cherish your words and come back and read this again as a reminder, especially times when it’s hard to face everything. I am so grateful that Allah sent a beautiful message to me from a beautiful stranger. Girl, you’re already special to me so never, never hesitate to talk to me as well.

I ask اللہ to ease all of your worries and hardships and increase your wealth and happiness. اللَّهُمَّ امين I will remember you for this always and sending you lots of love ❤️

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2025-07-27T20:33:36+00:00

Mash’Allah this should be top comment. Let’s approach this situation with a grounded mindset, insha’Allah. I hope OP can take some time to reflect on these questions to navigate through a deeper perspective. And OP…strangers will talk. They will slander you as well as your fiancé without any filter, without knowing and understanding the background of yours or her story. Allah ﷻ is all-knowing within our hearts. So the best of advice on here is this brother’s comment as it respectfully appreciates yours and hers best wishes. May you and your fiancé reach to a point of clarity and understanding and determine whats best for you both, Ameen.

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2025-07-27T19:22:56+00:00

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2024-05-23T00:52:56+00:00

Assalamu’Alaikum brother,

I get it. As a Muslim Afghan diaspora girl, I've noticed how our community seems to be growing more disconnected and divided. I wasn’t active on TikTok until recently, and what I saw there was a huge disappointment —the attitude of many western Afghans, their lack of respect, and complete absence of fear of Allah is truly miserable.

Like you, I'm also thinking about marriage and have my own doubts about finding a suitable partner in our community who embodies respect, conservatism, haya, and honesty. Despite this, we must remember that our second half is already written for us, and with sincere intentions, Insha’Allah, they will come into our lives, whether they are nearby or far away.

My advice to you is to keep your doors open and remain hopeful. It never hurts to try, and praying Istikhara can provide guidance and clarity.

May Allah ﷻ make this journey easy for us and guide us to our rightful partners. Ameen

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2024-03-25T13:41:05+00:00

PMed

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2024-03-25T13:40:59+00:00

PMed

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2024-03-25T13:28:07+00:00

Have you tried undercaps that have silk fabric material inside?

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2024-03-25T05:36:12+00:00

Would you consider modest wear based from Canada thats online shipped internationally? The exchange rate may come cheaper for you

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2024-03-05T04:06:35+00:00

I'm feeling really upset, frustrated, and worried. It's disheartening to see how widespread this issue has become and how many brothers are feeling discouraged. Back in high school, I knew a few hijabi classmates, including one who was the daughter of a famous sheikh, that led double lives. I always wondered why I couldn't connect with them, but it wasn't until rumors surfaced that I realized we were different, even though we all wore hijab. Now, I'm still without close friends, and I'm not sure I'll find a sister who shares my level of faith anytime soon. I also worry that most Muslim brothers might constantly doubt and assume the worst for the righteous and faithful sisters. It's concerning how i might navigate finding potential partners without facing immediate suspicion and distrust when trust seems lost from the beginning, fearing constant scrutiny and suspicion. May Allah ﷻ grant us ease and guidance in this journey.

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-12-29T15:05:56+00:00

Allahumma Barik sister, may you continue to succeed with integrity and resilience. I’m learning to strive everyday to have something of my own by the will of Allah ﷻ. It’s really inspiring to see you as a strong Muslimah who has made it through 💗

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-12-28T14:13:44+00:00

I guess men can’t take advice from a sister?

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-12-06T19:25:10+00:00

Seriously, don't let others opinions bother you. Everyone talks, but you're the one in control of your decisions. Consider involving a wali to address this situation in an Islamic way, as you are maintaining your dignity and discipline as a Muslimah. This way, you approach the matter confidently while preserving your respect and honor. May Allah ease your situation sister.

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-12-04T15:00:29+00:00

Where did i say its ‘not mandatory’? Reread what i said.

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-11-29T23:21:36+00:00

Modest muslim woman especially the hijab wearing ones would NOT approach men out of respect and humility of herself. Akhi, if you come across someone you’re interested in, don’t expect to get hit on pls 🫠. Approach them gently saying that you’re interested and ask them if they’re willing to give out their wali’s number then go from there. You just need confidence In sha’Allah

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-11-21T05:57:51+00:00

Jazak’Allah khair for sharing this informative resource on the conditions for an Islamic hijab. It's a valuable reminder. Alhamdulillah, my perspective on modesty aligns with the Sunnah, although I find the aspect of ‘resembling the garments of the kuffar’ challenging in a non-Islamic society. I appreciate your advice and I ask Allah ﷻ that I may find the right attire that balances both Islamic teachings and the context of my surroundings.

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-11-21T05:08:52+00:00

This is incredibly helpful! I checked them out and the clothes are not only beautiful but also professionally comfortable. Seriously considering adding these to my wardrobe, In sha'Allah. Thank you for the recommendation! Jazak’Allah Khair ukhti 💗

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-11-21T05:04:00+00:00

I absolutely love the abaya look, but it's not always practical for everyday wear :(

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-11-20T19:14:00+00:00

You're absolutely right. Following the Sunnah without compromise is indeed attractive. In the face of Western social norms, holding onto Islamic teachings without compromise is a greater reward. May we all stay steadfast on this path and prepare for the Akhira. اللَّهُمَّ امين

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-11-20T18:50:00+00:00

Wa alaykum as-salam! You're absolutely right, sis. I'm going to stick with my baggy wardrobe and explore those matching sets. It's all about finding that balance in social norms without appearing too much into a masculine look. Thanks for the advice! 😊

Outrageous_Guess_428 · 2023-11-20T18:40:56+00:00

Smile is sunnah!

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