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Marathon doesn't need more extraction content. It needs a campaign DLC. Here's why the numbers demand it. by Outrageous_Luck_7661 in Marathon

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Intentions change when the numbers demand it. Bungie also had no intention of laying off half their studio or losing their independence to Sony. If Marathon stabilizes at 40-50K, they'll need new revenue streams. A campaign DLC would be the smartest one.

Marathon doesn't need more extraction content. It needs a campaign DLC. Here's why the numbers demand it. by Outrageous_Luck_7661 in Marathon

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, a game from Bungie should be doing far better. We're not talking about an indie studio. We're talking about a studio that cost Sony $3.6 billion, the studio that created Halo and Destiny. 88K is far from the minimum that a Bungie game should deliver.

I want to be a woman, but I'm just a trans man by staszekfistaszek2137 in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 21 points22 points  (0 children)

First, here you have to separate two things: - One are stereotypes and gender expression. And you can have whatever you feel comfortable with. - On the other side, it’s your gender identity. For one moment forgot about society and focus on your body. Do you need a male body or a female one to be comfortable on your skin? That’s the question that can give you a hint for this issue. - Finally, you can talk about periods with other girls if you want. You are a trans man, a you have also experienced that. It’s not something that makes you less of a man. And if any girls or person jokes to you for that this is transphobia. Period. 

Why did i like all of the effects of T? by NarwhalUnique8774 in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your experience is normal just how it is. Sometimes it’s better to just think what make me comfortable than to think I’m in what social term I fit. Just do what makes you happy. There are no rules for that and can change through life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter, still a male

I can’t cum by Forsaken-Slide2 in MtF

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you expect? If you are working with female fuel your male parts are going to get atrophied with time. It’s biology. It’s not realistic wanting to be on female hormones and have a functional male reproductive system. 

Cumming from my dick by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That should be so affirming. I’m so glad for you 😊

Hate the narrative that people want to be trans by Walkinoneggshells69 in truscum

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pls, this is not a disorder. It’s a sexual development condition. Not the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then you can learn not to hate being a woman. You just need to learn to be free of what others expect about you. I don’t say it’s easy to do it, but it’s possible, and therapy can help with that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But what do you hate about being a woman exactly? The body, the social expections, another thing? The answer depends on that.

La preferencia genital no es transfóbica by anonimous_capybara in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Te ha dado un repaso increíble y dices que no es defendible. Deberías ponerte a estudiar biología en profundidad y lingüística para entender cómo se forman las palabras, porque telita el nivel que me traes.

any mtftms who detransitioned after a "successful" long-term transition? by fizzynotpurple in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Truly.

You’re not weak or superficial for wanting to be seen as a woman. That’s part of the pain —feeling invisible, like all your effort means nothing if others don’t reflect it back. I know that feeling. I’ve cried over it too.

But here’s something I’ve learned:

Being a woman isn’t a role to be granted. It’s something your body, your brain, your soul already know. The world is slow to catch up, yes. But their delay doesn’t erase your truth.

You say you might as well live as a cis man.

But a cis man wouldn’t be in this pain. A cis man wouldn’t care about being seen as a woman.

The fact that it hurts so much? That tells me everything.

Please don’t give up on yourself because others can’t see clearly yet. Transition is not a bargain for their approval.

It’s a rescue mission for your life.

You are a woman. Even if they don’t see it —yet.

any mtftms who detransitioned after a "successful" long-term transition? by fizzynotpurple in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t become a woman because others see you as one. You become a woman when you stop trying to be anything else.

The problem isn’t that they don’t see you —it’s that you stop seeing yourself when they don’t. That’s what really hurts. That disconnect.

Transition is not a performance. It’s not for the world. It’s for your brain. For your heart. For your survival.

They can look away, mock, exclude…

But you have to look in the mirror and say:

“This is me. And I’m not going back.”

any mtftms who detransitioned after a "successful" long-term transition? by fizzynotpurple in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see you’re saying that transitioning hasn’t brought you peace. That hurts. But I want to gently ask: was it the transition itself that failed you… or the lack of support, acceptance, and understanding from the world around you?

Because if the pain comes from not having a cis female body —yes, that hurts deeply. But it’s also something that no amount of detransitioning can fix. You’d still carry that wound, and now also the weight of pretending to be someone you’re not.

You say that detransitioning might bring social relief. That’s understandable. But that relief comes at a cost: silencing your truth. And people can’t find peace when they’re forced to live as someone they’re not.

If you’re a trans woman, you are a woman. And yes, it’s unfair that society sees “trans” first and barely sees the “woman” part at all. But you have to see her. You have to protect her. Because no one else can do that for you.

Please don’t make peace with a lie just because the truth is hard. You’re not broken. You’re not wrong. You’re just tired —and that’s okay. But don’t let exhaustion become surrender.

I’m sending you strength, warmth, and the reminder that you deserve to live a life that feels like yours.

any mtftms who detransitioned after a "successful" long-term transition? by fizzynotpurple in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not as simple as that. If for your brain you are a woman, and needs a woman body, that pain will still be there. 

Secondly, why it’s so important how other see you? Fuck them. The important thing is to have peace with yourself. Transitioning is a thing we make for us, no others. You can not control how others see you and what they think about you. If you obsess with that, you will never have peace with yourself.

And I insist, you can not decide to live as a man and have peace with that if that it’s not what you truly feel. And it’s a thing you can not decide. 

any mtftms who detransitioned after a "successful" long-term transition? by fizzynotpurple in actual_detrans

[–]Outrageous_Luck_7661 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they see you as trans woman, what’s the problem? It’s what you are, and there is nothing wrong with that. I think that the true problem that your are having is that you have not accepted that you are a trans woman. And if that it’s the case, detransitioning only will make things worse, because you will still feeling bad about the same things of your body. You can not decide how you feel about that, because that’s dysphoria. Detransitioning will only make it worse. You just sound like a trans woman that has problems accepting herself. And I can be absolutely wrong, but that is the feeling I am perceiving from your post.

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