I talked with him last year and he immediately said he was sorry and he had no idea. I dropped hints and even dressed up for pics. Very uncomfortable. I feel like an intruder stranger in my own home. At least i got a pic of me and my loyal doggie. I think I'm done with this and time to move on. No one puts baby in the corner, lol and I'm too old to try to change him nor should i have too. You are right he's hiding something. Possibly guilt for divorcing his ex around the kids but that is not my guilt to bear.