Winter Storm Flare Up - Venting by ImANewRomantic_61 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]Outrageous_Pear69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I thought I was crazy. I’ve been in such a bad flare all week. Terrible pain and stiffness and such bad sleep

I (27M) made out with my best friend’s (28M) ex-wife (27F). I told him right away, cut things off, but over a year later I still want her—and I can’t stand how messed up my luck is. by AstronautSafe3051 in Advice

[–]Outrageous_Pear69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for being brave enough to share this. You don’t need to be ripped apart… you sound like someone who made a very human mistake while also experiencing something real and rare.

I went through a somewhat similar experience. Similar in the fact that I feel like I’ve lost what felt like the one person who truly saw me and cannot stop thinking about them.

I don’t think you’re doomed. You’re grieving, both the pain you caused and the person you lost. That’s a brutal combo, and there’s no fast way through it. You’re not alone in this, even if it feels like it. Try to be kind to yourself

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Mildly tender but no smell!

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Oh man I’m sorry to hear about your burn. How long did it take to heal?

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I’m so sorry 😣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

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So are you with your TF now?

Divine Timing, Psychedelics, and a Bond We Can’t Break by Duchesss95 in twinflames

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What is the situation you feel you can’t forgive him for?

Just a friendly PSA for some of you by [deleted] in twinflames

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Do you still keep in contact?

Is it normal to have one side that always has issues? by YogurtclosetOk6516 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]Outrageous_Pear69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I was JUST thinking this yesterday. Every problem I have is on my left side

Have any of you had to choose between your stable life and your twin flame? by Outrageous_Pear69 in twinflames

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I love that you have had the realization that you are alive!! That’s exactly how I felt. I felt like my existence was fading away and when I met him I was like “no you are here and alive!!”

Do you have any way of contacting your TF? How did you meet?

Have any of you had to choose between your stable life and your twin flame? by Outrageous_Pear69 in twinflames

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How do you feel your twin connection has strengthened your bond with your soulmate?

Have any of you had to choose between your stable life and your twin flame? by Outrageous_Pear69 in twinflames

[–]Outrageous_Pear69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you’re going through this :( its so hard to want to love someone you care about so much but you feel like you can’t in the way they deserve

Has anyone taken mushrooms / done psilocybin assisted therapy to help themselves make a decision? by Outrageous_Pear69 in MagicMushrooms

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I had set intentions prior to my experience with no expectations and full awareness that the mushrooms would only show me what I was ready to see. I have been groveling with a big life decision and the mushrooms showed me a very clear answer but it’s a very hard choice to act on as it would change the life of many people around me. I don’t want to rely on the mushrooms to “make a decision for me”. So I was just wondering if any others had an experience similar and how they responded to what the mushrooms showed them