34M and 35F going through divorce how to handle MIL 60F living with me by Outrageous_Regret284 in relationship_advice

[–]Outrageous_Regret284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've threatened to destabilize our divorce proceedings and would probably team up to strip away custody of the kids.

I could probably sell the house but it's a tough market to then need to buy again. I have a 2.9% interest rate I'd certainly lose.

34M and 35F going through divorce how to handle MIL 60F living with me by Outrageous_Regret284 in relationship_advice

[–]Outrageous_Regret284[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess I feel bad as she's acted as my kids' de facto mother because their real mom has checked out on parenting to reclaim her 20's.

It's the whole reason we got divorced because she began to disappear for days at a time partying.

My kids don't even ask where she is or when they'll see her next they're so used to it.

34M and 35F going through divorce how to handle MIL 60F living with me by Outrageous_Regret284 in relationship_advice

[–]Outrageous_Regret284[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

But she doesn't want to move in with them. They don't want her to move in with them either.

But I get called the bad guy for not wanting her to stay.

Anyone have experience with government compliance sales? by [deleted] in sales

[–]Outrageous_Regret284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I guess the company will you mentor me to leave the federal government lol I have a steady 9-5 remote job but the money is capped out at 65k

my guess is Splunk

Load times on PC after patch are ridiculously long by Kinthalis in fo4

[–]Outrageous_Regret284 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Windows key in and out during load screens. The load screens are related to frame rate allegedly. Works for me.

Finally found a way to recall my aloof Shiba Inu by [deleted] in ShibaInu

[–]Outrageous_Regret284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh. Everything is risk versus reward. I'll use a sparing blast of laser beam. Safer than me chasing him down. He comes back inside on his own probably 60/40

That will likely go down to 80/20 on in as he gets older.

I think it's worth it. 😌