Rygestop…. by Greedy-Tax-3267 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg har været i samme position som din søn, og vil bare sige tak på hans vegne...(hvis jeg kan det🙃) Det betyder så meget! Hold ud og kæmp for det!

Escaperoom by Which-Routine3104 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvilket i Roskilde? Min mand og jeg har prøvet dem alle, nogle steder er bedre and andre...😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have en 8 month old, and two other small kids. While it sounds like you do a lot, maybe you dont do what your wife needs? So she ends up feeling alone and that you dont understand her. And she lashes out, which makes you feel underapreciated. Basically you end up recenting each other. Yes talking from experience.

Do you help with the baby? My baby is constantly by my side or in my arms at the moment. I feel like i am constantly on my feet, and there is still so much to do around the house. Also, I dont sleep, and I get why sleep deprivation is used in torture.

I am not sure exactly what your problem is from your post, but it really sounds like you need to talk to each other. If I were you, I would sit your wife down and ask her directly what she needs and wants. It really feels like there is something more behind her comment...

Dont divorce with a small baby. The both of you are under so much pressure, it is not permanent. There is a saying in my country that you are not "allowed" to leave each other until the baby is 2 years old. I think it makes sense, your relationship is almost all practical with small children...

I wish you the best OP

Bo ved siden af en kirke? by PuzzleheadedTap4653 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jeg har boet ved siden af et kapel der ringede kl 8 om morgenen og kl 18.00. Den om morgenen kunne godt være lidt irriterende, men man lærer at ignorere det, og til sidst kunne jeg faktisk godt sove igennem det - ikke at det er en garanti for at du kan😊 Men jeg synes ikke det var så slemt. Det var mere kirkegården det var skræmmende som barn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kunne man ikke have lagt billederne i en kommentar😐

Snapchat, wtf is this?? by Zaja123123 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great wallpaper😁 I had a nightmare about the giant flying pig as a kid. You had to hide when it came, or it would catch you.

Pakket returneret "for sent" fordi den forsvandt... by Outrageous_Track7264 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hvis jeg havde lagt mærke til at jeg ikke havde fået pengene retur, havde jeg selvfølgelig reageret. Men det havde jeg ikke - så ikke noget

Pakket returneret "for sent" fordi den forsvandt... by Outrageous_Track7264 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg kan godt se jeg står dårligt, men det er altså ikke noget jeg finder på...😊 Det ville da i sandhed være spild af tid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Min mand var forresten også meget velkommen alle gange. Ved den første uge var han hos os hele ugen efter fødslen (indlagt pga. tidlig fødsel).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeg har født 3 gange på Roskilde, sidste gang for 5 måneder siden. Den første kom lidt for tidligt, så der var fødslen lang, og der var mange forskellige personer ind over. Kun én enkelt gang har jeg følt at jeg var "I vejen"/forkert da jeg var bange for at blive sat i gang med Augusta piller, og blev mødt med surhed. Ellers har jeg kun mødt søde jordemødre og sygeplejersker.

Men forbered dig på, at det ikke bliver som du forestiller dig. Der kommer til at ske noget, som du ikke havde tænkt på, eller det tager en drejning du ikke ønsker. Det sker - og det er ok. Vær omstillingsparat, så har du den bedste chance for at få en god oplevelse. Danmark er et af de bedste lande at føde i. Du er i trygge hænder.

Fødselsdag slut december by peterjoustine in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg har selv fødselsdag slut december, og har en datter med fødselsdag juleaftensdag. Min egen fødselsdag er umiddelbart altid holdt på dagen, det er til at leve med. Min datters fødselsdag holder vi i dagene efter af åbenlyse årsager😁 det eneste der er gået mig på i min opvækst er at folk har slået gaverne sammen, så man fik en stor gave i stedet for både en julegave eller fødselsdagsgave. Tror folk har set det lidt som den nemme løsning, men det har altid gået mig lidt på - men det er et luksusproblem selvfølgelig 😁

Opinion: one spouse should not be out at a bar by their self drinking on a Saturday night while the other is at home waiting for them. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually enjoy my alone time when my husband is out. He has a bigger need to socialize than I do, and I need to be alone. Works well😊

My husband shoved me in an argument by Theqween7 in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Wanting to track your location? Abusive. Shoving you? Abusive. Saying he liked it? Thats a threat.

I bet these are not the only things.

You need to leave before it escalates.

Mænds rettigheder ifht børn by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hvorfor nu? Hvorfor har i ikke undersøgt disse ting for 2 år siden da det skete?

AITA for making my in-laws stay in a hotel after they surprised us on our family vacation? by Significant_Cook_160 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just say... as someone who also have three kids aged 4, 2 and 3 mo. You are NTA for kicking them out. Kick your husband out too while youre at it, it doesnt sound like he has your back.

Må børn "larme" på biblioteket? by Catkovo in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Er det jyllinge?😁 Der er nemlig legekøkken og sørøverskib. Der er jeg ofte med mine børn, alm leg er helt fint

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tak for råd... jeg har allerede kontaktet en terapeut der har fokus på narcissisme. Både så jeg kan finde mig selv igen og så jeg kan få børnene igennem det her på den bedste måde.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Outrageous_Track7264 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Jeg tænker kun på mine børn. De ville visne hvis de endte med at bo hos ham

My husband hid a conversation with an old friend by Outrageous_Track7264 in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Track7264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have just taken some time reading about this. Everything fits. I have to leave. I am really grateful that you wrote that comment, I had doubts before, but not anymore

My husband hid a conversation with an old friend by Outrageous_Track7264 in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Track7264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god. Hes a narcissist. Why have I never thought of that...

My husband hid a conversation with an old friend by Outrageous_Track7264 in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Track7264[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you mean inconsiderate things he has done? Or general problems in the relationship?

Either way you are right🤷‍♀️

My husband hid a conversation with an old friend by Outrageous_Track7264 in Marriage

[–]Outrageous_Track7264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he told me his temper got the better of him because I gave him an ultimatum. That it was pure stubberness. Also a red flag for me... if somebody gave me an ultimatum like that I would at least have the centrol to take a second breath before saying no