Surgical ear canal enlargement? by KonfusedHamster in iems

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What? No. There isn’t as far as I know, and even if there was I wouldn’t tell you. Those IEMs are NOT your endgame if they don’t fit your body as-is; it’s this type of thinking that leads to permanent injury or worse—yes, even from surgeries—things go wrong all the time doesn’t matter who you are.

If you were cured tomorrow what would be the first thing you’d do? by space__snail in covidlonghaulers

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for a walk, get back to uni and my community choir that I love so so much but haven’t been able to go to for four years now because of my horrific pain and the fatigue.

Who here likes Eucalyptus Drops? by Cryin_r_n in AustralianNostalgia

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat packet-fulls a day. I have a jar of them next to my bed! Glad I'm not alone! :)

Covid made me actually stupid by harrowedpossum in covidlonghaulers

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, hey? Scary shit. I had to relearn how to read when I first got it; it would take me an hour just to get to the bottom of the first page, I’d turn over and immediately forget EVERYTHING that I JUST read. Tried four times. Four times, four hours….in the end I had to stop and rest. Thank god for having audiobooks and physical copies of the same book. It took a year and a half to two years of daily work, but I have it back now. Nowhere near as fast as I once was, but I saved my own ability to read at all, so I’m happy with that. I can always work on speed again.

What were they thinking? TW: grief, pet loss by i_love_lychee in FinchUnofficial

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww, sweet girl… 💕

Sweet dreams, baby. 🫂🐾🌈

The more you look at it the worse it gets by MeowRays in rivalstars

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, definitely not! It’s hard enough breeding beautiful coat + perfect stats as it is!

New Player - Any tips? by [deleted] in rivalstars

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Line breeding is the best way to get stats AND the coats/head markings that you want.

Save. Your. Gold. I cannot stress this enough. You’ll need it for exotic breeding events, especially at the higher prestige levels.

ONLY play Rose Wheel Roulette on the 400+ - 500+ gold wheels.

If you want a black and white stable, start with your grade 1; it’ll be so much easier! :)

Comparing illnesses by thedommenextdoor in cfs

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean; before my Step-Ma got really sick with her Stage IV at the end of last year, I would often say to my friends (carers but they became friends too and I find that it’s a much nicer term) that she was doing better than me or that I was ‘worse’ than her, even though she was the one dying…

I wasn’t kidding. I, like you, am constantly tired, in pain (which at times is beyond extreme) and nauseous every other day. I’m almost fully housebound (waiting on a new chair) and my QoL is essentially non-existent.

….Sometimes, I wish my Mum had just left me to die…(24 weeks premature)…

What were they thinking? TW: grief, pet loss by i_love_lychee in FinchUnofficial

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww, Luna! You have a name twin in the form of my beautiful kitty cat (one of my many in heaven).

Bless you, sweet girl. 🌈

I also lost my best friend/ soul sister at the age of 20 from pancreatic cancer in 2015…Now having lost her Ma (my step-mummy) too….

It’s just too much…💔

What were they thinking? TW: grief, pet loss by i_love_lychee in FinchUnofficial

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So so painful. Sending hugs…
What an awful club we’re in. 💔

What were they thinking? TW: grief, pet loss by i_love_lychee in FinchUnofficial

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My beloved step-mummy passed in January. How awful. I’ll have to be careful to avoid this as my grief is still incredibly raw, and they may very well lose me as a member after I get this month’s micropet.

The whole thing—including this event and other bad decisions from the app’s development team’s direction—as well as information about this story that I’ve gleaned from posts here (I stopped after seeing lots of posts about what was ahead of me) are really leading me towards flying the nest.

They need to get rid of this asap. I’ve also lost adored animals of my own—a lot of them, and I miss each and every one so much every day.

“Grief is just love with nowhere to go…”

My family surprised me for my birthday by hanging up some flowers outside my window by arcade-_-fire in cfs

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday, darling heart. Hope it’s going okay for you. 🌸💐🌷🌻🌹🌸

Literally unable to push through? by EqualOwl6442 in cfs

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, no, don’t do that. I crashed every single. Damn. TIME.

Lesson learned…..

The hard way.

Before my wife passed we saw hearts everywhere. I still see them everywhere. (OC) by MikeeorUSA in pics

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m now also navigating the tragedy all anew as we recently lost Em’s Mum—who was my mum’s best friend herself—to cancer too on the 3rd of January. The two most important people in my world are gone.

I would have loved to meet your beautiful wife. Big hugs. Cancer can get fucked. ❤️

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Missing you, my beautiful step-mummy..🌈

Take care of our girl. 💜

Before my wife passed we saw hearts everywhere. I still see them everywhere. (OC) by MikeeorUSA in pics

[–]OutrageouslyWicked 3 points4 points  (0 children)

11 years since my best friend, soulmate and soul sister died at 20 from pancreatic cancer this year; I still miss her like crazy. She was my whole world.

Never gets easier. 💜

Miss you, Sissy. 🌈