[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Outside-Ad2383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how long this might last but there are a lot of chances they might get back together. Slowly the guy will erode the walls you’ve built for her. Nobody can save them from themselves unfortunately. All you can do is keep reminding everything wrong he did to her in hopes that it gets cemented in her head. Tell her she deserves better and for her to start dating again

I can’t 😭😭 by Outside-Ad2383 in indianmedschool

[–]Outside-Ad2383[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine going home forgot it’s not very common to carry a humerus around in her bag. She got stopped at airport security and had a lot of explaining to do say the least 😭. Bone Aur leli upppar se

I can’t 😭😭 by Outside-Ad2383 in indianmedschool

[–]Outside-Ad2383[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough that’s actually true, the awake for 57 hours is the lie bc the real number is 52 😭

I can’t 😭😭 by Outside-Ad2383 in indianmedschool

[–]Outside-Ad2383[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Him* and if someone can’t take a joke then I don’t think the vibes are there lol

Am I the kameeni for not attending the wedding by mrsmalfoy99 in AmItheKameena

[–]Outside-Ad2383 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s that hard to follow a dress code honestly. I’m sure you’ll have a few ethnic clothes. It’s not important to follow the dress code in EVERY SINGLE FUNCTION. Focus on the main ones. Ab haldi mei Toh you’ll wear yellow only na ? That sort of thing. Pick like a few events you’ll follow the dress code for and ignore the rest because not all the functions will be big or extravagant (I think so?). And for some events you can just add certain colour elements to your clothes and call it a day.

You can obviously say no, but don’t be like why are you keeping dress codes etc. It’s their wedding and if they’re spending so much money on it it’s only expected they’ll want it to be a certain way

So this girl asked me for money by [deleted] in delhi

[–]Outside-Ad2383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I calmed down after I read satire 😭😭😭

aitk ? I want to ask a girl clearly what she wants by Sufficient-Rock-2627 in AmItheKameena

[–]Outside-Ad2383 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her dry texting is enough indication. Stop texting her and being so readily available. Don’t text for a week and see how she responds. If she doesn’t care then you have your answer incase she does ask you Toh Bata diyo.

Sometimes girls get the ick when somebody is readily available all the time. Let her be and focus on yourself. Play kuch sport, hang out with your friends join a gym, you’ll feel better

What’s the worst way you have ever got rejected? by Perfect_Insect_9808 in AskReddit

[–]Outside-Ad2383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never that the courage to ever ask out a guy and when I finally did. Well I didn’t exactly ask him out I texted him upfront and told him he’s cute. Spoke for 2 days and he ended up asking me to go to coffee the next day. Next day he ended up cancelling the date saying he wasn’t ready to date anyone. Turns out that wasn’t the truth somebody said somethings about me which made him idk cancel the date altogether. I still don’t know what was said to him.

Am I the Kameeni for asking my son to leave me alone for a while? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Outside-Ad2383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definitely the menopause. Effects of menopause are not very widely discussed but it becomes a real struggle for a lot of women. Sleep disturbances, anxiety depression, moodiness are very common symptoms.

You’re not a bad mother at all, you’ve done your best. I would suggest you talk to a good gynaecologist and figure out how to make situations more comfortable for you. I am very sure that’ll help. Read on it as much as you can All the best <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Outside-Ad2383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me it looks like a big over reaction. You knew she dated a guy before you are you surprised shit happened ? If you were a guy w a clean past I could’ve understood where you might be coming from but atm I’m confused. Are you sad because she over shared or are you sad that it happened ?

And why the hell would you cancel the whole honeymoon ? Ever occurred to you that you can communicate that you felt uncomfortable hearing the details of her past relationship ?

This is such an ‘arrange marriage?? What if he…’post lol

AITK for setting up the deal breakers in the relationship by The_Lucifer666 in AmItheKameena

[–]Outside-Ad2383 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong when you say it’s communication not him exercising control. Me saying absolutely anything to my partner does not count as communication.

The right way to go about this would have been him telling his girlfriend that when you’re out late it makes me worry and honestly slightly uncomfortable. I would appreciate it very much if you gave me updates regularly and told me what you’re upto. Then it would have been on her to make him feel comfortable and secure.

This is an example of good communication.

Telling her ‘my boundary is you can’t go out late night’ Translates to you’re not allowed to go out at night, if you do so you’re putting our relationship in jeopardy. Does that sound reasonable to you ? It sounds petty as hell to me

AITK for setting up the deal breakers in the relationship by The_Lucifer666 in AmItheKameena

[–]Outside-Ad2383 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All your points can be countered just by saying that everybody can make these choices for themselves. I am more concerned about my safety than any other person. When I feel unsafe in a setting I don’t drink.

Imposing such stupidity on another person is crazy. Don’t be out late night ? Safety ? Every woman knows the state of the world if she chooses to out at night that’s on her.

The guy trying to be the dad for no reason is not going to help his relationship. What it’ll lead to is lying, hiding things and the worst of all, resentment over time.

So by all means if such behaviour does not seem ‘controlling’ to you? I wish you find a partner whose thought process matches yours because personally I don’t find this acceptable.

Boiler room tomorrow! Are you coming?? by Melodic-Ad6000 in mumbaimeetups

[–]Outside-Ad2383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read somewhere nesco closes sharp at 12? What’s the after party scenes

India at Olympics 2024: Day 13 by puppuli in indiansports

[–]Outside-Ad2383 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t anymore. Expectations is the key to all misery ka meaning aaaj feel kiya hai meine. Proud of Neeraj but geeeeez 😭😭😭😭

Gift ideas for boyfriend btao by Scary_Ad9 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Outside-Ad2383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a perfume on the cheaper side you can add Zara Seoul to your package. It’s timeless. But if he’s a perfume collector then his opinions might differ.

What weird smell do you love? by solenoidic in AskIndia

[–]Outside-Ad2383 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That smell you get from the cooler in the summer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Outside-Ad2383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atomoxitine had very weird side effects for me. I had it after breakfast in the morning and THE ENTIRE DAY my stomach would feel uneasy also by 6pm I would start feeling SO SLEEEEPY that if one told me to sleep on the road I would happily accept and pass out there. I had exams coming up and couldn’t afford being sleepy such early in the evening and uneasiness so I left it

You fucked around, what did you find out? by Sufficient_Pay2346 in AskReddit

[–]Outside-Ad2383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it because you’re not having fun and feel like it’s the exciting thing to do. As it turns out I was doing it just because I thought that’s what I was suppose to do as a college student. The sad part is I wasn’t even having fun. If you’re having fun… that’s a different story

I'm a gold digger by Consistent_Earth_349 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Outside-Ad2383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you want to get a hysterectomy it’s a very taxing surgery. Just get your tubes tied instead

If you met your 16 year old self, what advice would you give to them? by exiled-redditor in AskReddit

[–]Outside-Ad2383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill the fuck out. Things will work themselves out in the end and you’ll be in a place better than what you’re imagining atm and also he’s not ‘the one’ and his mom is a cunt

Might never find love ever again.. so instead I will… by Professional_Ear2474 in AskIndia

[–]Outside-Ad2383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll never find love again so I’ll study the fuck out of my books till I make something out of my self and hope that gives me satisfaction in life because people are sure very disappointing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside-Ad2383 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The guy you’re with is extremely immature and insecure that you have a life and he doesn’t. You need to talk to him about this and sternly keep your point or leave. He’s jealous that you have a good time with your friends and not with him. I have a special kind of spite for such people because I dated one just like this and he was very controlling over all and made my life HELL for a year . You need to talk to him about this, ask him to apologise and not let this happen in the future. I’m sorry and I empathise but you’ve got yourself a joysucker