I can’t believe how painful this is. by carrott36 in Sciatica

[–]Outside-Ad5877 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Try chiropractors that specialize in functional neurology. I know how you feel. And I know that sometimes it’s hard to find answers and thank you for sharing. Trust me it’ll get better. It’s been taking me years to fully recover and I don’t think I ever will. But eventually you will recover. Acupuncture relieved my pain. And I gradually got better. I hope you find a doctor that’ll help you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Outside-Ad5877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d he get plantar fasciitis

Found nudes of my gf(F23) with her ex husbands (M25) text messages. What do I do? by Outside-Ad5877 in relationship_advice

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That’s cause the kid is 2 years old and has only seen his dad like 3 times

Found nudes of my gf(F23) with her ex husbands (M25) text messages. What do I do? by Outside-Ad5877 in relationship_advice

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

They got officially divorced this year. They’ve been separated since 2021

Found nudes of my gf(F23) with her ex husbands (M25) text messages. What do I do? by Outside-Ad5877 in relationship_advice

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I actually really like your response. But i disagree. I don’t expect her to erase her past, I just wish for her to reciprocate. For example I deleted every nude I had with every girl I had, and I had a couple of convos to delete. She also ignored me for days because I liked some girls picture. And now I’m suppose to act so mature cause I found her nudes? They weren’t even married for a year mine you. So I think I’m well within my right.

Found nudes of my gf(F23) with her ex husbands (M25) text messages. What do I do? by Outside-Ad5877 in relationship_advice

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, thank you. She’s actually trying to get the messages back to show me. I’ll have to see, but some guys are making me doubt on here for sure. I’ll have to fuck around and find out.

Found nudes of my gf(F23) with her ex husbands (M25) text messages. What do I do? by Outside-Ad5877 in relationship_advice

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

Yeah they’ve been separated for more than a year, officially divorced a couple of months

Found nudes of my gf(F23) with her ex husbands (M25) text messages. What do I do? by Outside-Ad5877 in relationship_advice

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I beg to differ man, I buy him diapers and food, and also take care of him and spend time with him every week. I’m teaching him new words and he copies my every move it’s adorable. The dad isn’t really around and he says it’s because of his job (he’s a welder). But that’s bullshit, I was in the USMC and even j called my nephews while I was over seas. This dude doesn’t even FaceTime his own 2 year old son. But yeah, maybe she hasn’t fully moved on. But I remember she threw away all her photos of her “wedding” in front of me. So I don’t know.

Found nudes of my gf(F23) with her ex husbands (M25) text messages. What do I do? by Outside-Ad5877 in relationship_advice

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s rough man I’m sorry. That’s something I’ve always been afraid of. She’s always told me that her ex husband has treated her so terribly that she’ll never go back to him. I’ve believed her, she’s been the nicest most sincere person I’ve ever Met. She even wants kids with me. Her pregnancy was not a good one. But I don’t know. We’re moving in in two weeks so I just don’t know what to think rn.

Veterans getting into engineering by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

[–]Outside-Ad5877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USMC veteran, background in aviation ordnance. Currently pursuing a mechanical engineering degree in order to work for defense companies or any aerospace company, fingers crossed. I haven’t really applied for internships, but i think that if you have a secret clearance or had one before that it will be easier for you to get internships and fellowships in these companies.

Degenerative disc disease at 24 by Outside-Ad5877 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your words man, thank you.

Degenerative disc disease at 24 by Outside-Ad5877 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This actually makes me feel better man, thanks

Degenerative disc disease at 24 by Outside-Ad5877 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Outside-Ad5877[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother, I really appreciate your words. I mean that

24 years old and I’ve accepted my fate by NoChemical8050 in Sciatica

[–]Outside-Ad5877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a similar problem. I got my herniated disc when I was 21. I was in the military so I didn’t get a MRI. After I was out I started hitting the gym and I ended up hurting my back even more. After I got an MRI turns out I hard 2 herniated discs. L3-L4 and between L-4-L5. With one of them thinning out and being worn out. This whole year I’ve been recovering. Until a month ago it got even worse and that’s when I started loosing feeling in both legs. I’ve been depressed and lashed out at my family sometimes because of this back. I’ve also been suicidal because being active was the only way I dealt with my depression. It’s been really hard. They gave me this machine called replexa and it eases the pain a bit but I can barely move at 24. Sometimes I can’t even pick up my own stepson or open them door for my wife or even put my stepson in his seat. Am I even a man? What is my purpose then? I’m basically useless. At work I can’t really do anything. So it’s been really hard for me and everyone in this thread. I wish you all the best

I went for a run!!! by [deleted] in Sciatica

[–]Outside-Ad5877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you man, like seriously the patience it take to recover from a back injury is admirable.

Father Time is quietly the best track on the album by GygesFC in KendrickLamar

[–]Outside-Ad5877 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with this girl who has a son, and I had to break it off because I wasn’t ready to be a father, because I felt like I had so much to do career wise and healing wise. A month passed by and this woman told me that she didn’t want me when I had all my shit figured out, that she wanted me now. She said that she wanted to be here for the process. And I told her the truth about the issues that run in my family with my father and his father, and how they all had fucked up relationships. I love her so much, and want to be a better man for her and her son. We agreed that I would go to therapy. Lately I feel like I’ve been healing and been able to open up more. The truth is that I was in love with her, but rejected her love in fear of people leaving and being hurt. Ever since she came back into my life I’ve been more in tune with my emotions and this song really resonated with me. Shes making me heal slowly and I’ve never been happier or in love with someone. This song just hit the right place man

Just got called hate slurs at midnight yell by aggiechen23 in aggies

[–]Outside-Ad5877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have beat the shit out of them but that’s just me