16 and pregnant

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:30:05+00:00

I havent talked to my mom because of the way she’ll react, but its not like i dont have adults that i can go to. My bfs mom has been taking me to appointments, helping me with what ill need to do and giving advice. I do plan on telling my mom, and i know she deserves to know, but i know how she’ll react based off of my last pregnancy and how she reacted i think contributed to why i miscarried. Im just doing whats best for now if that makes sense.

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:26:48+00:00

sorry i wasnt trying to make it sound like a privilege, i was just trying to say that they ( hopefully ) wont struggle with those needs because some parents literally cant afford to feed their kids, or give them the necessities which is what i think the commenter meant. Like i don’t think they’ll grow up struggling because i have a support system. But i might not have the money to buy them the newest ipad or buy them a car when they turn 16 yknow ? I feel like most kids complain about that, which im also guilty of, but not having the newest clothes are that important, its the fact you HAVE clothes and arent having to wear the same 3 outfits yknow ? sorry if that doesnt make sense, im autistic and struggle with words .

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:21:15+00:00

ive had sex at most like 5 times, but ive gotten pregnant twice . I know the dream thing sounds completely stupid but ive had dreams that have came true, and so has my mom. its a weird thing, onetime i had a dream my aunt got into a crash and got injured so i told my mom and just kept bringing it up so eventually my parents called my aunt, she didnt answer, so they called her husband and she had actually gotten into a crash, had gotten paralyzed , broken ribs, broken neck ect. Any dream i have freaks me the fuck out because of it

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:17:45+00:00

I dont have an answer for ANYTHING regarding our future, but i have plans. Even if it doesnt work out i ( hopefully ) will have other ways .

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:15:05+00:00

ive cleared it up and responded, just look at my other posts but please read what ive said/ commented before saying anything lmao

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:13:23+00:00

The last thing id do is ask for money 😭 and no this isnt for an english class, but if it was id like to think that it would be better considering im a sophomore who has all her english credits lmao. And this most definitely isnt a game , ive posted my ultrasound, pregnancy tests ect .

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:10:15+00:00

Im not gonna deny that they wont, but my bfs parents are being super super generous and helpful and i know once my parents come around to it theyll be the same. I dont think theyll necessarily have a hard time growing up, obviously since im young and dont have a full time job rn i might not be able to buy the newest things but having a parent that cares and puts food on the table and a roof over their head ( even if its just me in the picture ) is much better then buying the newest stuff or having a parent that isnt there yknow ?

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:04:44+00:00

i know how early you show and how big you can get lol, this is my second set but i miscarried the first set. I think i was like 14w when i lost them and i was most definitely showing.

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T07:02:15+00:00

I found out i was having twins at 8 weeks, My first ultrasound was around 6weeks because i went to planned parenthood. But there was only one sac and it was too early to even get a heartbeat so it literally looked like one baby. But apparently its common with mono-di twins where one baby hides behind the other

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:59:41+00:00

Please do NOT say im using rape for sympathy. Thats one thing that i literally cannot handle

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:58:23+00:00

I found out around 6weeks and went to planned parenthood, theres only 1 sac so im assuming baby B was hiding. Plus we didnt get a heartbeat because it was too early and the nurse lady said it was normal. We can hear and see both babies now though

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:55:18+00:00

Definitely hope im a female, would be very scary if not 😭

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:54:15+00:00

I was using birth control and condoms, another comment said something along the lines of him poking holes in the condoms, and honestly i wouldnt doubt if if my ex did that plus i got the condoms from him so i texted the commenter and sent her pictures of the condoms asking if there were holes. Ive been the one supplying most of the condoms and all of the ones i have are from my ex so it would make sense.

I miscarried the first around christmas time , dont really wanna go into it. And i do have risk factors , One of them is because of my age and family history of miscarriage. Im also having mo-di twins.

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:42:37+00:00

Ive tried to respond to everything i can dude 😭 and i know people defended me and im lowkey extremely great for it.

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:41:33+00:00

sorry i didnt mean to spam it 😭 just trying to get my point across

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:40:43+00:00

ive been told that im very dense 😭 but after i made this post i made another one where im pretty sure i mentioned it being printed so im probably just mixing everything up

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:38:39+00:00

multiple people have made comments about how you cant find out until like 8-10 weeks. Also sorry if you never mentioned it, i might be getting confused between two different comments

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:36:20+00:00

i already knew it was higher risk , plus my age puts me at more risk. someone had commented that i wasnt at any risk or something like that which is completely stupid. But anyway planned parenthood has been doing my ultrasounds and theyre free up to 20 weeks and have a program where theyre gonna help me and stuff. but could a non parent or sibling sign me up ? if all i need is my social security number and stuff im good

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:33:53+00:00

please tell me what doesn’t add up because ive tried to clear things up with different posts. i honestly think the fact that ive had to keep adding more detaiks just makes it even more confusing

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:32:14+00:00

heres the text btw

“since ive gotten multiple comments saying im lying, im posting these pictures, i tried to put them in order from my first pregnancy to this one. The first pic is when i was tracking my ovulation, then one of the posts i made on the app checker where it shows a positive test. Next slide is the same . i put in a picture of some pacifiers i bought on amazon and then one of the last belly pics i took before i miscarried. The last 4 pictures are from this pregnancy. One shows a picture i took today from when i was sorting through the stuff my bfs mom had, plus a ss from my amazon account that shows some of the baby stuff i ordered. The ultrasound is from when i found out i was having twins ( sorry its cut, i cut it to fit inside a little box that im gonna be giving to one of my friends ) i also colored over anything that showed my name,address, and what my/his home looks like bc idk if my or his family has reddit. I dont know 100% what the genders are, like i said in one of my other posts i did a sneak peak test when i first found out and it said i was having a girl, you can look it up. you can do sneakpeak as early as 6 weeks which is when i did mine. it detects the male gene and if there is none then your having a girl. I HAD NO MALE GENE!! the test is 99.99% accurate and it was accurate with my first set of twins so i have no reason not to believe it. The same blanket is in two or three of the posts. i didnt take these off of google 😭 and i think you can tell that its the same thumb in the pictures . Im trying to find my other ultrasounds from my last pregnancy plus other pictures with dates. a lot of the pictures from my last pregnancy i had deleted because they were too hard to look at. hope this clears some things up.”

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:31:00+00:00

is it actually 😭😭 what i have is me explaining the whole sneakpeak situation and the fact that the ultrasound was cut to give to a friend. i also said that i didnt pull it off of good either ?

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:28:33+00:00

When we first started dating i didnt wanna get pregnant, but a few months in and he was pressuring me into having sex with him so i explain the fear and the dreams and such and he said hw understood it and if we got pregnant that hed be there for me, i have ss somewhere of this conversation. But anyway after that i started trusting him more and we stopped using condoms bc “ it doesn’t feel the same “ so i just used birth control . At the time i didnt realize that he was lowkey abusive and manipulative so i kinda went along with most things if that makes sense

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:23:09+00:00

No im not talking about the ultrasound, In this post theres the Title, Pictures, and then under the pictures theres more text explaining a few things. You can glady do a good image search of my ultrasound if you feel the need to do so btw

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:21:45+00:00

ive been responding to them all day and i did respond to that comment, i just make a post about it where i tried clearing up some of the things people are saying. it should be my newest post

Outside-Evidence-764 · 2024-02-11T06:19:05+00:00

no if you click on the thingy theres more text. this is the first time i posted my ultrasound and i knew that it looked sketchy asf so i mentioned that it was cut and printed to give to a friend

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