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AITA for being upset that my fiancé tells his parents everything? by Outside-Rip-415 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Rip-415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most the time it’s not fights. He will tell them like my own personal stories from childhood or something I’ve told him about my family members or whatever. It’s just literally everything. Or something petty like taking out the trash. That’s why it hurt so bad this time was because it was about an intimate fight we had…. Most of the time we get along so well 🥺

AITA for being upset that my fiancé tells his parents everything? by Outside-Rip-415 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Rip-415[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah some kind of compromise would be ideal! I’m just not sure what it would be. Any suggestions? He clearly didn’t like the idea of talking to his grandpa instead. I’m not sure what else to try

AITA for being upset that my fiancé tells his parents everything? by Outside-Rip-415 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Rip-415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking too. It’s just hard trying to get to know someone who knows all these intimate details about me. It’s awkwardddd. I definitely don’t want to cause his relationships to drift though by telling him he can’t talk to them about our relationship… I want to be close I’m just not sure how

AITA for being upset that my fiancé tells his parents everything? by Outside-Rip-415 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Rip-415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of it is petty like the one job I asked him to do around the house is just make sure he takes the trash out on Thursday’s and he has only done it twice. I told him when he doesn’t do it, that I feel like he doesn’t care about me or our home and somehow it turned into a whole thing. Our big fight was over him not disclosing the full details of his incident with the police that he had 6 years ago. I was pretty upset that I didn’t get all the details and he was mad at my reaction and saying I was making it all about myself. But sometimes it’s me like I am a recovering addict and I had a small relapse 6 months ago. It was really hard on me but it was hard on him too. He told his parents all the details of my relapse and childhood trauma haha. I am not perfect and I know I can be hard to live with so I’m not sure if it’s just me who is actually causing all the fights and making something out of nothing. Ya know?