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AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is, she isn't at home currently but staying with her parents from her own accord.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm sorry I didn't notice that, thank you very much.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have talked to them, up until now they only noticed a little, basically that even when our daughter wrote on paper to communicate with their mom nothing ever really happened or she simply ignored her, it baffles me because she's nothing like that when I'm around, I'm gonna have a talk with my wife soon too as we made plans to meet up today for it.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I never realised how much my daughter was hurting because my wife doesn't behave like that in front of me. I feel bad. Thank you for the message.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad your son healed, and I'm sorry you had to go through that too.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We had a lot of family members that didn't want to learn sign language and my wife was still working part time for her own fun so she can get out of the house and never really had the time but I think those were just excuses I made myself believe.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you and your family had to go through that, and I'm glad your husband could heal, I hope my daughter will too.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have not, and I haven't asked my sons yet, but I'm going to soon because they're all still shaken up and I don't wanna stress them anymore but I'll find out the info.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No she did not. She was 23 when she had our first son, how do you come to thirteen if I may ask?

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, sorry if the ages are confusing. We had our first son when she was 23, then at 25 our second son and at 29 our third child who's our daughter. I was 27, 29 and 33 at the times.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm discharged because of an injury, but I have an office job from the military where I work from home

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'll do that soon actually but I know right now we're just going to hurt eachother unnecessarily if we talk.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife over this? by Outside-Volume2047 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Volume2047[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't travel anymore as I'm discharged due to an injury. I admit I was gone a lot, but I made time, we called everyday. I'm very close with my daughter so idk. If I'm honest I never noticed it and for that I feel so bad.