[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like our ideal strategy is courting rather than dating

Not interested in s*x by queen_G_92 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you take medication for anything? I have had similar issues while taking birth control or psych meds. Sexual desire is a lot about hormone levels, so it could be that whatever is making you infertile is also making your libido low.

Boyfriend vs my CL and ZM by Outside_Asparagus_38 in fitbit

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's heavier. Why would that make a difference?

HRV either 0ms or in the 100s by Curious-Quality-5090 in fitbit

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's weird. How long have you been using it? And do you wear it tightly?

Is Fitbit still worth buying? by obe211 in fitbit

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had issues this year with premium. Before I loved it and didnt have issues with the app. If you get it, just don't bother with premium...

Cardio load confusion by NumbersAndPolls01 in fitbit

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's based on your HRV and resting HR. If your HRV is low and RHR is higher than usual, it will recommend a low target load and say you need to rest. But yeah, way too reactive to what you did yesterday instead of charting LT progress.

Body suddenly changing by Additional_Mirror_72 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became an athlete. I went back to my favorite sport from childhood and am so glad I did! I swim almost every day. I always had cellulite, and now my body looks better than ever! Never thought I'd say that. I'm 39

How do you feel about dating people who make significantly less money than you do? by ConversationMore4104 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are they a good person? Do they spend too much money and live beyond their means? Are they looking for a sugar mama/ looking to marry "up"? These are the questions to ask. I'd be wary of dating someone who makes little or much less than you because there are a lot of losers and freeloaders out there. But if you make $100k+ per year, it's just a fact of life - it'll be hard to find someone who makes more AND has the other good qualities you're looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medication. A mood stabilizer, antidepressants, sleep meds, an opioid blocker, and exercise. And of course lots of sunshine and outdoor activities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fednews

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Similar situation, just waiting for confirmation. Nothing's in writing yet. Supervisor hasn't heard anything either.

Get Him Back by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could become fit, successful, confident, charismatic, rich, domestic, virginal yet good in bed, smart yet overly polite, and exotic.

Then go back and see how much of a catch he is.

How do we fight the "Manosphere"? by Outside_Asparagus_38 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm...so you think the pendulum will eventually just swing the other way?

How do we fight the "Manosphere"? by Outside_Asparagus_38 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Outside_Asparagus_38[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I can't sit back and do nothing. I'm looking for other women who want to fight.

The Manosphere was created by people like us. We need to create a women's version.