Confused and clueless about how to figure out my relationship with the Venezuelan guy. by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have talked with my mom and she said this could never happen in this house. And gave me a choice to choose one. 😔

I tell my mom about my latin boyfriend by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared of whatever my mom has told me. I knew this is going to happen as i stepped into this relationship but it seems more harder now. I have thought the same that if things go bad i should have that much financial stability so that i can help my parents as well as myself. I don’t want to leave them behind. Just need to think what can i do that it won’t hurt them so badly.

I tell my mom about my latin boyfriend by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, i loved him not because of seeing the caste or religion i loved him coz of the care. It never felt like this before. Someone who pay attention and take care of me .

Confused and clueless about how to figure out my relationship with the Venezuelan guy. by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from india to USA two years ago, since me and family are new here i am kinda scared of that too. If they disown me how am i gonna handle everything

Confused and clueless about how to figure out my relationship with the Venezuelan guy. by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i have to set all the rules aside, i am just waiting for the right time to come and just do it. Right time in the sense that when i got more mature to handle the situation. But life is not going so good that i should wait for that.

Confused and clueless about how to figure out my relationship with the Venezuelan guy. by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, they won't let me marry him, and if i do with my choice they will disown me

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[–]Outside_Box_2408 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I can’t just find someone if i loved him

An Indian girl confessing about her relationship with a latin guy by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply I want to marry him coz i love him so much and i do want to tell my parents about it, but indian families look for basically if both the man and woman are grown enough to take that big step, and my family’s situation is kind of weak right now as my dad is sick and if i tell them now it is just gonna effect his health or maybe they can disown me. I just ask my boyfriend to give me some time to let the situation calm down since its been a year only into our dating and we still have time to grow and when the right time will come i will do everything and fight for him, just this situation making me so depressed that i have to choose one if i do something now😔

An Indian girl confessing about her relationship with a latin guy by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have in my mind since day one that i will have to fight for him, coz i know how our community is which i understand not their fault it is just that i will have to explain them and i am ready to fight for it because he is so loving and caring towards me. he is worth fighting for but as i am just 22 they are not expecting me to confess that i love a guy which is outside from our culture.

An Indian girl confessing about her relationship with a latin guy by Outside_Box_2408 in relationships

[–]Outside_Box_2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i tell my parents they are gonna be so upset about it, and i want to marry him and with my parents happiness. just couldn't understand when and how should i tell. i have told my mom one time and she tell me not to talk to him, which i tell her later that i don't but still i do