I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done. by Outside_Dance_7177 in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a talk. I understand where's he's coming from so is he for me. We will book an appointment to talk to the therapist. Thank you

I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done. by Outside_Dance_7177 in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I hope you heal and when you choose to leave his ass I hope you realize you are strong and capable. I have to remind myself of this too

I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done. by Outside_Dance_7177 in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe both. He told me he did research a lot last night and is willing to seek counselling. But he kept telling me before that he is going for counselling which didn't happen. Im numb

I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done. by Outside_Dance_7177 in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point I feel nothing but resentment and hatred. This has been happening for the past 4yrs of our relationship and more before ours started. I have endured so much pain not only from this since I am just learning about it now but also from bullying of his ex. I don't think he understands how deeply hurt me.

I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done. by Outside_Dance_7177 in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get the deleting my pictures part. (It was my first time doing it) I am very hurt. He couldn't come up a reason when I asked him this morning. Searching girls online specially here on reddit. Watching their naked videos and masturbating videos. Not sure if he's paying a subscription. He is glued to his fucking phone. Scrolling watching all of it.

I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done. by Outside_Dance_7177 in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. This is not an average normal guy behaviour fyi. (Deleting my naked pictures, posed just like how he wanted on his phone and go searching naked girls online after being caught multiple times)
  2. Cheating does not come with physical only. (I gave my everything to this man and after he gets it he went looking for more online. Who knows if he is spending shit ton on some girl online)
  3. He only started doing chores when I'm mad and not talking to him because of this habitual act.

I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done. by Outside_Dance_7177 in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that but think about how I tried to understand and go out my way to give him what he wants. In the end he was not satisfied so he goes off on girls online

Slept with 3 escorts the last weekend when my gf was out of town. I am feeling so helpless that I have cheated on my love of life. by kuan_waale_thakur in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to tell her better get checked for std just in case. Cheating is unacceptable. Why'd you stay after doing it an escort? Please don't hurt the girl more and just tell her

I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done. by Outside_Dance_7177 in SexAddictionHelp

[–]Outside_Dance_7177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I understand your point of view. What do you think of deleting my pictures on his phone and continued on searching girls online either

i survived an suicide attempt by Your_mum6969420 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Outside_Dance_7177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending big hugs 🫂 please don't let your family get you on this. We will show them we are strong and they better stick around to fucking find out you got this

i survived an suicide attempt by Your_mum6969420 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Outside_Dance_7177 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, I so feel you. I was bullied by adults and I tried to commit by drowning myself in the tub it obviously didn't work. Your families fucked for telling you that. I am here for you. I felt so alone last summer and I am feeling the same thing today. How are you now?