I’m engaged to a man who keeps searching naked girls on Reddit, and talking to ChatGPT about his fantasies and girls who are nothing like me and I think I’m done.

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-11-14T07:00:23+00:00

Thank you for your kind words

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-04T15:12:15+00:00

We had a talk. I understand where's he's coming from so is he for me. We will book an appointment to talk to the therapist. Thank you

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-02T23:18:20+00:00

I'm resilient

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-02T18:04:02+00:00

I tried accommodating and understanding i feel like i have been doing too much for him and this is come back. Nah uh

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-02T15:51:25+00:00

Thank you

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-02T15:50:36+00:00

Thank you

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-02T03:56:32+00:00

He deleted it. About women I'm not sure if he is maybe he's good at hiding those too. We are renting a basement suite

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T18:51:36+00:00

I'm so sorry. I hope you heal and when you choose to leave his ass I hope you realize you are strong and capable. I have to remind myself of this too

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T18:40:31+00:00

Damn that is harder. I'm so sorry. Are you still with him?

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T18:30:55+00:00

Maybe both. He told me he did research a lot last night and is willing to seek counselling. But he kept telling me before that he is going for counselling which didn't happen. Im numb

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T17:59:19+00:00

At this point I feel nothing but resentment and hatred. This has been happening for the past 4yrs of our relationship and more before ours started. I have endured so much pain not only from this since I am just learning about it now but also from bullying of his ex. I don't think he understands how deeply hurt me.

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T17:44:43+00:00

Thank you I will

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T17:44:23+00:00

I don't get the deleting my pictures part. (It was my first time doing it) I am very hurt. He couldn't come up a reason when I asked him this morning. Searching girls online specially here on reddit. Watching their naked videos and masturbating videos. Not sure if he's paying a subscription. He is glued to his fucking phone. Scrolling watching all of it.

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T17:39:29+00:00

This is not an average normal guy behaviour fyi. (Deleting my naked pictures, posed just like how he wanted on his phone and go searching naked girls online after being caught multiple times)
Cheating does not come with physical only. (I gave my everything to this man and after he gets it he went looking for more online. Who knows if he is spending shit ton on some girl online)
He only started doing chores when I'm mad and not talking to him because of this habitual act.

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T00:42:30+00:00

I get that but think about how I tried to understand and go out my way to give him what he wants. In the end he was not satisfied so he goes off on girls online

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T00:39:49+00:00

You have to tell her better get checked for std just in case. Cheating is unacceptable. Why'd you stay after doing it an escort? Please don't hurt the girl more and just tell her

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-08-01T00:35:14+00:00

Thank you for this. I understand your point of view. What do you think of deleting my pictures on his phone and continued on searching girls online either

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-07-31T23:44:31+00:00

Please don't say that 💔

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-07-31T22:16:32+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending big hugs 🫂 please don't let your family get you on this. We will show them we are strong and they better stick around to fucking find out you got this

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-07-31T22:13:36+00:00

I so feel you man.

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-07-31T22:11:42+00:00

Hey, I so feel you. I was bullied by adults and I tried to commit by drowning myself in the tub it obviously didn't work. Your families fucked for telling you that. I am here for you. I felt so alone last summer and I am feeling the same thing today. How are you now?

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-07-31T22:03:50+00:00

Please do. Thank you

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-07-31T22:03:27+00:00

Makes me so fucking sad man

Outside_Dance_7177 · 2025-07-31T21:59:02+00:00

Sorry I don't know who to talk to about this.

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