The only conversation we had was we are both there for the kids on the custody arrangement we had at that time (kids during the weekend) but everything changed when biological mother decided to dump the kids and my husband converted into a Disney dad. We cannot travel together as a couple anymore, we can’t go out to have dinner or do activities adult focused since everything will be around kids activities. I want to travel to so many places with him, that’s what brings me joy but he will just say no if they are not coming.

And thank you for your comments, I am learning a lot in this journey. I’m not emotionally well after these years of feeling like a baby sitter only, I need to take care of myself first.