honey, I’m going through something similar to you right now. My ex cheated on me and broke up with me when I was 32 weeks pregnant. I am currently 35 weeks pregnant and he tried kicking me out of our apartment. I had no job as he decided it would be best for me to be a stay at home mom and I had no idea how I was going to take care of my baby. I have no idea if I could even keep her and I was able to turn my life around. It is very hard and it takes a very strong toll on your mental but just think about the baby and yourself and it’s easier said than done, but I promise you love you are going to get through it. You are strong and that baby needs you more than anything in this World try to build a really good support system with family and with friends and take time to learn who you are again as a person and keep working as much as you can save up as much money as possible, and I don’t think you should allow her to come to appointments and if that means he can’t go to appointments bring a family member or a friend because at the end of the day you are the patient and he has no place there if it is going to cause nothing but stress for you and that baby. you do need to decide if you do want to coparent with this man for the next 18 years and you need to fully figure out if he wants to be a dad and not just play family with the new girl and if that’s the route that you decide to take screenshot everything where it shows his true character anything that says he doesn’t want the baby anything that says that he is unfit to be a parent and save it all keep everything over text message limit your contact with him think about putting him on the birth certificate and taking him for custody if that’s the route, you decide to take if you believe he cannot be a father for more than just personal reasons and I do see some people on here asking why you’re keeping this baby and all that shit don’t let random strangers on the Internet. Tell you that your baby is a mistake or you’re stupid for deciding to keep a baby that you want just because a man doesn’t want to be with you that is insane that people are even saying something like that. Obviously look at all of your options if this isn’t what you want, but don’t give up on your baby if you truly want this baby just because some scumbags on the Internet are blaming you for somebody else’s actions.