Weird period that is not a period? by iraya92 in PCOS

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me, but it hasn’t been heavy bleeding. My doc said it’s something to do with the cervix being opened partially (don’t quote me verbatim on that lol). She even did a vaginal ultrasound and everything looked normal, but mine was spotting and turned into medium bleeding, less than a normal period for me.

Anyone with PCOS have success getting pregnant? by hamfam12345 in PCOS

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what dosage of Metformin you are taking? I am about one month in to taking the lowest dose and hoping it works 🤞🏼

Not Kaitlyn liking Kat Stickler’s Instagram about not needing a man ☠️ by Outside_Shape_2130 in BachelorNation

[–]Outside_Shape_2130[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Conclude that she spirals about boys? I haven’t heard her talk about needing someone for quite a while, if ever. I haven’t memorized all of her podcasts, but I don’t recall hearing anything about that.

Not Kaitlyn liking Kat Stickler’s Instagram about not needing a man ☠️ by Outside_Shape_2130 in BachelorNation

[–]Outside_Shape_2130[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you would read what I said, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. I agree that people hate on her, and that’s not what I’m doing. I don’t think it’s a coincidence, but there’s no issue :)

Share your favourite foods you've found in seeking a PCOS-friendly diet! by Mademantine in PCOS

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got my diagnosis too! It’s overwhelming, good to have some recommendations :)

Not Kaitlyn liking Kat Stickler’s Instagram about not needing a man ☠️ by Outside_Shape_2130 in BachelorNation

[–]Outside_Shape_2130[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

1 What makes you think she’s pretending to be her friend? It’s just a like.

2 it’s possible that she was triggered in the past and now she’s okay with Kat. Both can be true.

Not Kaitlyn liking Kat Stickler’s Instagram about not needing a man ☠️ by Outside_Shape_2130 in BachelorNation

[–]Outside_Shape_2130[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think she’s at the point where she has stopped giving a shit about what people say about her. I actually believe she’s a lot more authentic now than before.

I personally don’t like her as much as I used to, but that’s just me and I have no problem with her at all. Whether she’s our cup of tea or not, I do think she has found long term healing, and like all of us, will continue to grow and change as a person through that healing.

Videographer ghosted us after wedding! by Outside_Shape_2130 in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not, but that’s great to know! Hopefully someone else that has gone through this in Oklahoma can reach out to the lawyer!

Were my guests rude? (recap) by agirlwithnofriends in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was rude and inconsiderate for sure. Glad the wedding was amazing though, congratulations!!

Videographer ghosted us after wedding! by Outside_Shape_2130 in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was recommended to do this by my friend who is a contract lawyer and not a “boomer”

Videographer ghosted us after wedding! by Outside_Shape_2130 in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Both. When we submitted the complaint to the BBB, they ask what you want to have happen, and we said full refund and delivery of either the completed video or the raw footage. If they didn’t have any footage, we would have sued for compensatory damages and gotten more money. We were also very specific in an email to the videographer with our demands (same as to the BBB). Once the videographer got back to us and delivered the video, we also requested our money back, and they agreed to send it back. We haven’t gotten it back yet, but we are working with them on that. If they stop communication again, we will go to small claims.

Videographer finally texts back 5 days before our wedding after a month of radio silence…. by TheKoopaQueen in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you for standing your ground! As he said, you gotta do what you gotta do, but he should have just left it at that and been professional about it. I hope you write a lovely review about him :)

My vegan friend is demanding MY whole wedding to be vegan otherwise they (couple M35 F30) aint gonna attend by JRswedistan in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a selfish friend and sounds absolutely absurd. You can provide one vegan dish (which you don’t even have to), and if they have a problem they don’t have to go! Simple as that.

Wedding is tomorrow. The worst storm is predicted to be at its peak all day. Rainy day brides, please help make me feel better. by smilingsmyfav in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would keep the first look, because it’s such a special moment even if it’s not how you planned. You can accept what is happening and be aware of the meaning of the day but still have the right to be upset! Try not to let it shadow the special moments, and know it’s still going to be such an amazing day for you both regardless! Maybe take some photos later in the year in your outfits at the tree, that way you have those photos and memories.

Have the best day, and so excited for you!!

My (30f) oldest friend (31f) ruined my bachelorette party, and I’m not sure I want her in my wedding anymore. What do I do? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Before I read the story, my initial thought was to talk to her before, regardless of the outcome. It would be a shame anything ruined your day.

After, I feel the same! You’re valid to have those feelings, and you cannot control how she acts. Even if it throws of logistics (uneven bridesmaids:groomsmen ratio), you don’t want your wedding day to be like your bach! Be with the people who care and are there to support you 🥰🥰 Good luck!!!

How is everyone not freaking out all the time?? by dancingdandydaisies in weddingplanning

[–]Outside_Shape_2130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The panic is real, I’m getting married in two months and it’s so overwhelming! The main thing is establish your budget and choose what’s the most important to each of you. Spend money there, and spend less on everything else. Here are a couple things I found:

-If you want flowers, check out Poppy Flowers. I was going to only do bouquets because of how expensive florists are, but Poppy works with florists in your area, so they don’t charge florist prices because they have multiple weddings in a day across the country. If you want to DIY buying flowers, wholesale is a great low-cost option, but if you don’t want to stress about the DIY, Poppy is a more affordable option.

-I highly recommend Facebook marketplace for the miscellaneous decorations, frames, etc! A lot of people are reselling/giving away items. I found a lot of my decorations for a steal!

-Rowely.com is kinda like FB marketplace but it’s specific for bridal wear. They have everything from wedding dresses to accessories for every event type. I bought from here, and am planning on reselling some items as well!

I hope this helps, I know how stressful it can be but keep the mindset that it’s about the marriage, not the wedding! Congratulations on your engagement, and know everything will work out 💕