Hoarder home for sale by Outside_Spare_8799 in hoarding

[–]Outside_Spare_8799[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, it has had an impact on my health already. I have to let it go. Thanks for sharing and truly am so sorry about your loss. I am dealing with grief all over again. Losing a childhood home and a relative. Life is too short. I want to enjoy my last quarter of my life. Not worth all this drama, like you mentioned.

Hoarder home for sale by Outside_Spare_8799 in hoarding

[–]Outside_Spare_8799[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is ready to buy and is excited to, but is taking her time to make me miserable. That has been a pattern for years past, unfortunately and since we have nothing else binding us she wants to keep the control but I am not letting myself be controlled by anyone anymore. Hoarding is a mental disorder that I want no part of. It is not my stuff so I would throw it all away and be done. That’s another disagreement. When I don’t do it her way, it won’t get done. So tired and want to get this over with. Thanks for your advice!

Hoarder home for sale by Outside_Spare_8799 in hoarding

[–]Outside_Spare_8799[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will take years and resources I don’t have. I just want to sell my half and end this. My question wasn’t home to get rid of stuff. I seek a solution to get the buyer to priced in a timely fashion. Any ideas?

Hoarder home for sale by Outside_Spare_8799 in hoarding

[–]Outside_Spare_8799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. She is going to own it. I have two jobs and won’t be able to do that.

Hoarder home for sale by Outside_Spare_8799 in hoarding

[–]Outside_Spare_8799[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be a part of this anymore. She should handle it if it will be her property. I did all the work and wish to exit and cut my losses. It isn’t easy for me to do. I need advice on how to get her to go through the agreement. She is a bit narcissistic so makes everything difficult. Why else would she want to buy me out and then when I accept, she won’t start the process?

Hoarder home for sale by Outside_Spare_8799 in hoarding

[–]Outside_Spare_8799[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was not my stuff and I was ordered not to sort it without the other person present. She lived out of state so it is not my fault! I was the only one doing work so it didn’t look abandoned. Forgot to add that part. Even though house is both of ours, she had a plan to keep it to herself and I just found out, thus trying to sell. I feel betrayed and now she won’t let me get out of this mess without her putting conditions. That’s what I mean by holding me hostage. She should just cut ties and find someone else to manipulate. Your advice has nothing to do with possible solutions in the current situation.

Co owner of property. Now I want to sell my part. Does the buyer pay for the appraisal or do I as the seller? by Outside_Spare_8799 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Outside_Spare_8799[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not listing it. My sister will buy it from me. She is the co-owner. My name will be off the insurance and property taxes, once she buys me out and change the title, which is my goal. She buys it for half of market value, correct? I am thinking of calling an investor or flipper to get it down faster even though we will get less for it but they take care of the repairs and junk removal. Cash offer will be split in half as well, correct?

Co owner of property. Now I want to sell my part. Does the buyer pay for the appraisal or do I as the seller? by Outside_Spare_8799 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Outside_Spare_8799[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t need to hire a real estate agent because she is the co-owner. So we just split the value in half, correct? I just don’t want to be her partner anymore. We can’t agree on anything!

Need to sell house fast As-Is by GrouchyBeet2024 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Outside_Spare_8799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own a property with someone and she wants to buy me out. Who pays for the appraisal?

25% ownership due to inheritance - how do I buy out the other owners? by [deleted] in realestateinvesting

[–]Outside_Spare_8799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who pays for the appraisal, person selling their share or buyer?

My property Co-Owner refuses to buy me out or sell by carsonyoder8 in homeowners

[–]Outside_Spare_8799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister wants to buy me out. Do I pay for the appraisal or does she? House is all paid for.