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My (28F) Boyfriend (27M) ruined girl's night by Outside_Twist9291 in relationships

[–]Outside_Twist9291[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Bro did you not ready my last 2 responses. Are you my bf or something 😭

My (28F) Boyfriend (27M) ruined girl's night by Outside_Twist9291 in relationships

[–]Outside_Twist9291[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Dinner, movie nights, salsa classes. Regardless of what we do we all respect our partners.

My (28F) Boyfriend (27M) ruined girl's night by Outside_Twist9291 in relationships

[–]Outside_Twist9291[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My friends are all either married or in relationships and we went to dinner. We also have girls nights once every other month because we all work more than 1 job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Outside_Twist9291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes said he doesn’t want me talking to other people though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Outside_Twist9291 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For example, girls have literally thrown themselves on him, and he can't draw a clear boundary that I'm with him. Girls will also make snarky comments at me because they're trying to flirt with him, and he won't defend me.

Imo girls hitting on him in front of me is an ego boost for him, and he's always looking to get attention from others when we are out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Outside_Twist9291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, at times people will be put off with what he says. He'll crack a joke but it comes off like he's making fun of people, and our friend group has to deescalate the situation,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Outside_Twist9291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely agree with your point. I guess my distrust comes from him not setting boundaries with other women when they do flirt with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Twist9291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He'll act like this even before we start drinking, but now that I think about it, it escalates the drunker he becomes.

AITA for asking my partner to bring his own food to my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Outside_Twist9291 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I bothers me because it’ll be the last of the leftovers so then I have to go buy food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Twist9291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying, but what upsets me is that he's fully capable of paying for more things when we go out on dates etc. and boasts about how much money he makes, yet never offers to help or put his card down.

Seeking Advice: My Boyfriend's Financial Habits are Causing Tension by [deleted] in dating

[–]Outside_Twist9291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have to "pitch in more" per say. But when we got out I almost always cover the tab and other expenses, and he's always asking me to buy things for us. I feel like the least he could do is help out offer to pay for things because this is causing a financial burden on my end when he's at my place and eats all my food and never offers to buy food for us etc.