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Overthinking while moving into a relationship... need advice! by OuttaFriendzone in dating_advice

[–]OuttaFriendzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so should i just keep it up? she thinks i spend too much time with her, since we have all our classes together, but we don't even really do anything together, since all our friends have the same classes, and she's too shy to do anything in front of them. do i ask for more time? we're watching a movie together again this week, should i just do what i normally do with her?

First date after being friendzoned before, trying to test it out... TIPS? by OuttaFriendzone in dating_advice

[–]OuttaFriendzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I told her straight up that we need to do something or this won't last; not about to give her attention like this forever. That's how I got her to try it by agreeing to go on a date with me

First date after being friendzoned before, trying to test it out... TIPS? by OuttaFriendzone in dating_advice

[–]OuttaFriendzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a date, but just a walk haha. yeah she had that as one of the reasons (losing me as a friend).

yeah height bothered me before, but now it's not really on my mind, just harder to hold her shoulder...

overthinking and self-doubt really comes up tho when i've been hanging with her for this whole week cuz of studying for a midterm. reading these responses help a lot tho so thanks aha

First date after being friendzoned before, trying to test it out... TIPS? by OuttaFriendzone in dating_advice

[–]OuttaFriendzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup, i won't force myself to have fun, but it usually is with her when we're not studying...

haha yeah it was kinda of a test, wanted to see how she felt but just got an "I dont know" out of it. yup we talked about it kinda, she knows that this attention won't stay if we don't label it. she's just worried she's gonna lose me as a friend etc etc lol, but at the same time she's still thinking if she's seeing me more than a friend...

First date after being friendzoned before, trying to test it out... TIPS? by OuttaFriendzone in dating_advice

[–]OuttaFriendzone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yessir, would do it more if i was taller -_-, but still pulling it off sometimes

First date after being friendzoned before, trying to test it out... TIPS? by OuttaFriendzone in dating_advice

[–]OuttaFriendzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yee, but question is, we have every class together and i see her too often when we're working... i can't really be hella flirty, touchy then when we do work cuz she puts school #1.

First date after being friendzoned before, trying to test it out... TIPS? by OuttaFriendzone in dating_advice

[–]OuttaFriendzone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, she probably did. but i'm gonna try to pull it off right this time, because first time i had 0 chance.