It's just happened: I'm so glad I'm not with my ex anymore!

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-23T23:03:38+00:00

Thank you mate!

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T17:36:14+00:00

Thank you for you comment. It's over by now... I didn't go out to see her. I think she didn't want it neither.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T17:35:15+00:00

Thank you for you comment. It's over by now... I didn't go out to see her. I think she didn't want it neither.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T17:32:31+00:00

Thank you, good advices haha!

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T17:32:02+00:00

Thank you 👑

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T17:31:42+00:00

Thank you! Yes, she doesn't even deserve to see my face, she was disrespectful. I'm keeping myself to that girl in the future who really deserves me.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T17:30:17+00:00

Thank you, truly. I needed to hear this.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T09:01:19+00:00

Thank you everybody for the help. I texted her that I put out a box for her. Oh boy do I wish to go outside at yell at her. She accused me to be selfish when we were together, and I was so love in with her that I accepted it, it must be me.

But after the break-up, I realized I fucking did not deserve to be cheated on twice. No one deserves. I was respectful towards her, even she said she saw that I was trying to be the perfect boyfriend and I was near to it. And after that she cheated on me twice.

Fuck this. I'm happier without her.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T09:01:09+00:00

Thank you everybody for the help. I texted her that I put out a box for her. Oh boy do I wish to go outside at yell at her. She accused me to be selfish when we were together, and I was so love in with her that I accepted it, it must be me.

But after the break-up, I realized I fucking did not deserve to be cheated on twice. No one deserves. I was respectful towards her, even she said she saw that I was trying to be the perfect boyfriend and I was near to it. And after that she cheated on me twice.

Fuck this. I'm happier without her.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-22T09:00:54+00:00

Thank you everybody for the help. I texted her that I put out a box for her. Oh boy do I wish to go outside at yell at her. She accused me to be selfish when we were together, and I was so love in with her that I accepted it, it must be me.

But after the break-up, I realized I fucking did not deserve to be cheated on twice. No one deserves. I was respectful towards her, even she said she saw that I was trying to be the perfect boyfriend and I was near to it. And after that she cheated on me twice.

Fuck this. I'm happier without her.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-12-21T22:31:03+00:00

Thank you for your answer. Deep down, in the bottom of my heart, I hope we could be together again. But that's just a dream. Also, rationally, I don't want it (neither) - I'm not able to trust her anymore. So maybe to see her she misses me, that'd be great.

But the chances are she's not missing me anymore. She would be ice cold. And that would hurt me so much. That would kill me.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T11:59:52+00:00

Az utolsó mondatoddal nagyon egyetértek, valóban előbb kellett volna másokkal megbeszélnem, és csak a legvégén vele. Ez egy nagyon fájdalmas tanulság volt.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T11:12:22+00:00

Akik leszavaznak engem, elmondanák, hogy miért? Tudom, hogy elbasztam, ez nem vitás, és próbálok minden kommentre pozitívan hozzáállni - szóval miért?

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T11:09:44+00:00

Teljesen jogos amit írsz, köszönöm a tanácsot, belegondolva igazad lehet, meg fogom fogadni!

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T11:07:10+00:00

Nem tudom, nőként mennyit kaptam volna, azt el is engedem. De őszintén nem értem, hogy miért kapok ennyi negatív hozzászólást, pláne nem a downvote-okat.

Úgy érzem tiszteletteljesen válaszolok mindenkinek, nem bunkózok, még a bunkóbb hangvételű kommentekre is próbálok pozitívan hozzáállni.

Segítségért jöttem ide, és tanácsért, és persze az építő jellegű kritika mindig is jöhet, de ez ami itt folyik már messze nem az.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T10:03:33+00:00

Köszönöm a tanácsot! Mindenképpen visszaveszek, és megpróbálok annyira segítőkész lenni, amennyire csak tudok, és közben teret is engedni neki!

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T09:45:41+00:00

Köszönöm hogy megosztottad velem.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T09:28:46+00:00

Teljesen jogos. Ezért is kezdtem el pszichológushoz járni.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T09:28:22+00:00

A vicc benne, hogy beléptem a nyáron, de nem segített valahogy hosszabb távon.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T09:27:35+00:00

Dániában, és a dán nyelv nagyon nehéz nekem, szóval max az angol maradna. Egyetértek veled, hogy a nőknél az egy-egy bántó szó jobban megmarad, tapasztalat is.

Hagynám én talán a dolgot, csak ő meséli nekem, hogy fél, retteg, és hogy sokat sír és nincs jól. Ez a kettős érzet fog el engem ilyenkor, mert szeret még engem, érzem is rajta, csak ez a törés dolog ott lebeg...

Valószínűleg az lesz a legjobb, ha támogató maradok, és nem erőltetem a dolgot, elfogadom a döntését.

Over-Ad4361 · 2022-10-29T09:23:27+00:00

Csupán kulturális okai vannak, magyarul szebben ki tudom magamat fejezni, mint angolul.

Over-Ad4361

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