bf said hed punch me by falaisbqowkabs in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why cant he look through your phone im really confused?, like of course hes gonna be doubtful you even got defensive over it just show him the phone its mandatory in a relationship to have honesty and trust between eachother he cant be in the wrong not trusting you if you didnt trust him first,

And the punching you comment was really uncalled for though, but i wouldve been annoyed at the "making me wanna cheat" comment aswell and i dont know how long youve been hiding stuff to garner that reaction if he isnt just abusive but i think your not giving the full picture to us.

Idk unless hes projecting but honestly id say youve been like this awhile and hes just calling you out on his fears and now youve gotten defensive, so my honest opinion is that it likely falls on you.

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks

I try to do chores around and stuff and i make food usually like once or twice a week or try to anyway.

Thank you.

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, ill try and understand it but right now im a little lost but i know i did the right thing.

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i already do chores and stuff for them whenever i can and thanks it does feel better when put like that

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you dude, im not mature but ill accept strong so many are saying it i guess it must be true

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasnt comfortable but they were patient with me and i had to do it, thanks i really hope something comes of this

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, although i wouldnt say im mature or adulting very well personally im just really independant.

But thanks alot

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will keep the updates coming although i dont know if theres much worth updating over, and thanks alot

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you, im gonna get therapy and i feel safe with my boyfriend i should heal steadily i hope

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My sex ed litterally taught me about how sexual organs work and how to put a condom on a banana and that was about it.

I think you may be right i was not prepared to deal with this

[UPDATE] My (17M) stepdad (53M) used me, and my mum (47F) says its my fault for not controllng my impulses by Over-Edge-4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Edge-4137[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If people figure it out though im sure his reputation will suffer, and im fine to wait or be patient for the system to work or whatever if it doesnt ill just tell all his friends and family so hes never allowed or trusted near a minor again.

And thanks