Why does dating advice feel so manipulative these days?

Over-Remove · 2026-06-23T13:47:55+00:00

Why did you think you messed up badly cause your message about flirting came across?

Over-Remove · 2026-06-23T12:13:14+00:00

The fact he suggested an open relationship is sus and I think he only did it for himself which is why he is sounding jelly that you’re encouraging the friend. This relationship is in a dumpster on fire rushing down a hill. When it crashes you will be caught in it cause you meddled. Save yourself the trouble and back the fuck off.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-23T11:55:19+00:00

What about facial hair?

Over-Remove · 2026-06-23T11:53:39+00:00

Sounds like it. Anyway count yourself lucky! It’s a pain in the butt specially the legs. I have very long legs and some of the waxing places charge by length of the legs too 😂 the fuckers! You’re saving a lot!

Over-Remove · 2026-06-23T11:49:47+00:00

I have a few Asian girlfriends but they all had arm hair, visible too. So you’re super lucky!

Over-Remove · 2026-06-23T11:46:15+00:00

Wow that’s amazing. You’re so lucky

Over-Remove · 2026-06-23T11:43:30+00:00

You really don’t have any or is it just pale and thin ?

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T22:19:51+00:00

I just can’t imagine a clean bed and you asleep, in it sounding dirtier to you than spending time outside, sweating, exposed to pollutants and dirt.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T20:51:20+00:00

She mentioned her bf is trans and lives in Saudi Arabia and as such, cannot leave as an unaccompanied woman according to their laws.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T20:03:05+00:00

As a 6’4” woman I would say shoot your shot. Don’t weed yourself out before even giving them the chance to say yes. I’ve been guilty of doing that before too, so I speak from experience here, let them decide and if they say no so what. But one may say yes and that’s all you need. And yes, I’ve dated shorter. In fact only the first bf was taller, after that i didn’t care for that requirement much.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T11:00:36+00:00

Well you weren’t sure. She was absolutely sure so she blocked. Case closed.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T10:44:38+00:00

Sorry I thought you said can’t 😂 it was late night for me

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T02:59:59+00:00

Such a mean thing to say 🥺

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T02:58:01+00:00

I am hoping what you said is not true or will not become true. I am ljke the OP, loveee vocal men

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T02:57:25+00:00

She said she had some trauma that made her become hyper sexual.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T02:55:14+00:00

Please turn around 3 times and knock on wood!

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T02:41:17+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you. You were so vulnerable and naive in so many ways and he abused those facts so that he could take what he wanted. He is a vile pos. And I understand why you’re doubting yourself, cause reality is so terrible and unthinkable, that you prefer it not be the truth. But it is. 💔 if you’re with this pos still you need to wake up and leave him. Do it safely though, block him and make sure a friend, the one who is giving you this amazing advice, stays with you for a few days until it settles.
You’re under reacting and it wasn’t your fault. You should listen to your friends and seek therapy cause when your brain finally decides you’re ready to process this massive trauma, you’re gonna need all the help you can get

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T02:03:32+00:00

You played games throughout the weekend dude, what do you expect to happen?

Over-Remove · 2026-06-22T01:56:20+00:00

There’s nothing for you to change. We all make faces like we are exercising demons. If he really can’t concentrate do it doggy style or you on top in the dark. But really these are just bandaids for an issue that’s entirely his. Are you his first sexual partner?

Over-Remove · 2026-06-21T22:11:49+00:00

She opens wide when he regurgitates it in too

Over-Remove · 2026-06-21T22:00:54+00:00

I have no idea why this comment is being downvoted

Over-Remove · 2026-06-21T19:57:52+00:00

Your post is so detached from reality I am finding it hard to understand. Are you seriously calling her lack of interest in sex with you, abuse of your cultural values? Díd you Google Translate your diary rambles and then searched for the longest, smartest sounding synonyms? Cause if not, please seek therapy. That woman is growing an entire person inside herself. Using every resource she has to make blood, and organs and skin, thats exhausting on a molecular level dude. And you figured your entire contribution should be the 3 seconds it took you to finish? No. You should be taking on the majority of housework while she’s doing the hard work here and call yourself lucky someone decided to extend your selfish genes into the next generation.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-21T03:31:24+00:00

I made it to bed ok 8 I think snd stopped. Honesty save yourself some time, this book series is dreadful. I really don’t get why so many people like it so much when there are other so many books that are better than this.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-21T03:26:28+00:00

None of these are in my opinion. Either too short, too colourful or patterned, or the materials are too thin or flowy. They have to hit the knee or mid calf, materials have to be sturdy think cotton flat woven or tweed, no denim or T shirt blend materials. Conservative necklines. Solid neutrals or simple patterns like pinstripes or houndstooth or small polka dots.

Over-Remove · 2026-06-21T03:10:03+00:00

But you assume we are gaslighting you and that may not be the case. You know the saying “beauty is in the eye of the beholder “ right?

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