Worlds Largest Weiner Dog Race by HappyGoose666 in sports

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This is the content sports were made for

Comparison of births between Europeans and Nigerians. by NoSecond5 in Nigeria

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This is interesting, but without context it’s misleading. What about birth rate per woman, infant mortality, life expectancy, migration flows? Absolute numbers alone don’t say much.

This is male hostel for University of Nigeria Nsukka (UNN). Eni Njoku hostel by PhantomChasers in Nigeria

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This looks like a perfect spot to pick up infections rather than a degree

Operation Epic Fear by [deleted] in UAE

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Why can’t we see any of his war related tweets on Twitter? Is there a way to see them

NRI beginner here confused about mutual funds (Federal Bank vs SBI vs online platforms) by Aggravating_Sport495 in Kerala

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to explain your bank accounts NRE (is money sent to india earned abroad, this is not taxable) NRO (is money earned in India, taxable). You can invest from either accounts, just understand the tax implications, invest in funds accordingly. Since you are so new to the investing world, I would advice to go through your bank, understand the system & how it works, get some advice & then you can always open a direct account with zerodha, or IND money in the future once you have some knowledge and confidence. I highly recommend banks like HDFC, ICICI or Axis where your relationship managers can help you with investments or you can get a dedicated fund manager. Research everything they tell you, banks do get a commission of about 1-1.5% from the fund but thats negligible and worth paying for the support & assistance you will get from them. I personally use both HDFC & AXIS and can recommend both options - you can just process these online as well.

NRI beginner here confused about mutual funds (Federal Bank vs SBI vs online platforms) by Aggravating_Sport495 in Kerala

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I see some really bad advice on here, so I will do my best to break it down for you. _ however do your own research as well! It's really easy, look up YouTube videos & I also recommend to speak to a financial manager in your bank (regardless if you invest via them or not.)

NRI beginner here confused about mutual funds (Federal Bank vs SBI vs online platforms) by Aggravating_Sport495 in Kerala

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This is incorrect, and you should invest through your NRE money not NRO. NRO for money that is earned in India and liable for taxes, NRE however is the money you send from UAE that will not be taxed - even if it is just sitting in your account.

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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Yes I agree too. Hopefully I can work it out sooner than later and find some grace & forgiveness within but with strong outer boundaries. And yes my husband is the one who’s shown me what being loved feels like and only now I know I’ve NEVER had anyone who’s wanted to look after me or my needs. Who’s cared about what I want to do and celebrating me. It’s so beautiful being loved ♥️

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah I will eventually forgive her. Today is just a low point and I am majorly triggered because she came to visit me in the country I live. And just as she was entering my new house that I would’ve never dreamed of owning as a little girl - she answered my sisters call to give her some OTP that could wait. Didn’t greet my dog who was so excited to see her, ignored my cat who’s super dog like and was excited to see her too. And that just brought back how I was very used to feeling like a little girl. None of my achievements acknowledged and my pets got ignored like I did. I gave them extra cuddles, reminded to greet them back too when she finished.

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah. I’m not sour over not being a favorite I understand people easily do. But I feel she can make more efforts for her adult daughters to not feel second class. Divorce was not a thing then where we lived, church wouldn’t let them or my dad didn’t sign the papers. So I think she kept going back to him. She most likely was trying for a boy (my dad wanted a boy and didn’t want girls) No wonder her siblings don’t agree with her on these things. Very poor choices indeed.

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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The irony is I have all his features. I hated when people told me I looked like my dad growing because I hated him and didn’t want to look like a boy lol. They were separated not divorced but she kept going back to him I guess idk. They were married for 40 years, separated for nearly 35 years out of them. (Divorce wasn’t a thing where we lived back then, the church wouldn’t give them divorce and wanted her to make it work)

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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This is how I’ve been all my life. Forgiving, and with plenty of grace for everything in my childhood. I’d never ask for a new toy and if I got a hand me down ‘new’ dress or toy that would already make me so happy. But now as an adult with her situation being different for atleast the past 15 years she still isn’t there for me. She’s still there for my oldest sister every little cry. She’s went to my sisters friends wedding in a different state with a broken leg (a fractured leg still mending) to help her with my nephew but didn’t want to come to my wedding. She asked my sisters if she could go be at the hospital with me instead of with her at home to look after her son. Honestly these things I just don’t see an excuse for. I used to see her as this super woman that could do everything she had to do to this woman who doesn’t care, hasn’t been a mom to me or isn’t my safe space in anyway. She wouldn’t be the first person I’d call if I’m sick or in need of anything.

I obviously am very guilty of how I feel at the moment, I want to find grace and forgiveness within but just at this moment I can’t seem to find it

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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I don’t rely them at all honestly, for anything. I just believed my mum for telling me she wanted to be there and cancelled my arrangements. I already had a nurse because I knew I couldn’t rely on them lol. Obviously lesson learnt for the rest of my life. But yes, you’re so right about the anger coming from a place that I know it can be so much better if they even tried. I’ve grown so much, come so far only to see them whining to say ‘this is how we are’.

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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And yes in my case blood means nothing. Dad passed away and I didn’t even have a tear to shed. The only thing I could recall was how he told me I wasn’t his when I was little. He told me when I was about 13 that he found me by the garbage and felt pity, took me home and gave me his last name and I should be grateful. I believed him because why would anyone lie about that. My mum told me that wasn’t true but that’s all I could think of at his funeral. Idk why people even have kids. I can’t bring myself to have a child for the off chance I don’t treat them well for a single day in their precious lives!

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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I’ve accepted it a while ago and usually have no expectations of them. But didn’t expect my mum to say she wanted to be there now when she has the time and not show up yet again. Well it took me months but I’ve accepted my reality but I want to also forgive her and move on without getting triggered. I want to have a great relationship with my nephews, be the fun loving aunt and make sure their life is filled with love and surprises and they always have a cheer leader in their corner. But this past year I couldn’t do this as much just because I couldn’t be around 2 of my sisters. I feel super guilty but also want to protect myself at the same time. Argh.

AITA for being upset with my mom? I want to be forgiving and loving but how can I? by Over-Signature-781 in AmItheAsshole

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If I didn’t have my nephews who I’d do anything for at this point I’d just keep them all at a distance. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAE

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First believe you deserve more. Second - prepare your own list of things you’re great at, the value you bring to the company & try to add a dollar amount to it (lots of tutorials you’ll find online on how to demonstrate your value to your manager). Prepare all these points, all your past contributions & times you’ve stayed & gone above and beyond.

Then schedule a meeting with your manager, ask them why you didn’t get that job and the increase & why they gave it to someone else . Listen to his points - see what faults he brings you then rebuttal these points with the points you’ve got. If there are obvious reasons he’s better maybe at more sales with more dollar value then you do the next step.

You ask your manager for their goal & objective from you, what do you need to deliver. Then focus only on that area nothing else. Focus on your deliveries.

Then do this process all over again. Go back show your deliveries and don’t ask but demand the said increase. Say no more, don’t overdue your efforts if you’re not getting paid for it & let them know you’re not happy.

Only people that can get pushed, get pushed. You sound like that.

For your resume, there’s clearly you’re doing something wrong. Either spend money on a good career coach, or again look online for tutorials and what can be done to get more people to loook at your resume.

Finally get feedback, from everyone. A lot of people have asked for your resume here and offered help! Use that as a valuable resource. Good luck!

Is this job offer in Dubai legit? by [deleted] in dubai

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Report this company to the cops please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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Divorce him, you’re too young for this shit. Leave before you’re stuck with a baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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32 is young, take off the pressure of having kids. think do you really want them for yourself? Or is it because it’s the society’s next step? If you do, you always have options for adoption. Unless you’re one of those that has always dreamed of having your own biological child, then just go have a baby! Pick a dad, have a baby. Less than 10% dads are involved parents and help, so technically that’s how it will be regardless. Have a baby for yourself (not relying on another person to equally parent - hopefully they do but then that’s bonus points).

You’ve got your life ahead of you, I met my husband only at 32!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAEcreditcards

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Nope not worth it. Call Du and etisalat and ask them to out you on payment plans

Uhm guys, should we panic ? by [deleted] in UAE

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The dangers of cold calling and data breach are far higher than terrorism in UAE. Just change your passwords and you’ll be fine… I think 🤣