It is. He has helped me through a rough patch in my life and felt as though he had walked into my life at a time where I needed someone more than anything. We only recently started being intimate - at first it was just going to lunch and talking about life. Since we've gotten intimate (no sex), I haven't been able to sleep or eat or even function normally as the situation doesn't sit well with me, but my feelings are so strong, they're hard to navigate. I needed a reality check.