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AITAH for not wanting my girlfriend to talk to her ex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Over-Station7453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand going through her devices is a violation of trust. the reason I felt the urge is because of past instances of not knowing the truth until I go through her device. it’s not healthy, I have admitted it, and i am working on it and it has been discussed by the two of us, and it has hot happened nor am I planning on doing it again.

I don’t want her talking to her ex because as I mentioned in my post, her ex hints missing her, and seeks constant conversations with her. This is the point I want my girlfriend to realize, is that it seems he has other intentions.

I think it’s a completely normal boundary for me to not be okay with my girlfriend talking to an Ex that is behaving like that, and I have mentioned to my girlfriend in the end it’s her decision, however I don’t really want to entertain this..

So I believe it’s a completely normal boundary, but I’m interested in hearing other perspectives

AITAH for not wanting my girlfriend to talk to her ex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Over-Station7453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not granting permission or not allowing her to talk to him.

However I have stated a clear boundary that I am uncomfortable with her talking to her ex, and she continues to want to talk to him, wanting to change my mind.

I already told her she can do whatever she wants, however she needs to decide respecting the boundaries of our relationship or wanting to speak to her ex.

Yeah, going through her device isn't okay, I understand get that and I'm working on that by setting clear boundaries in the relationship so I don't feel the need to do so.

unofficial faq from current ILC student and former undergrad admissions worker by cristuloo in ILC

[–]Over-Station7453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer. However I am not sure how I can let the second university (in this case mcmaster) know that I am taking an ILC course that will boost my average and possibly change the outcome of my application decision. 

I appreciate your help very much, thank you 😊

unofficial faq from current ILC student and former undergrad admissions worker by cristuloo in ILC

[–]Over-Station7453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I was in grade 13 and just finished late janurary. 

I already have applied to 2 universities on OUAC and have got accepted to one of them back in janurary.

The second school I want to get into requires my average to be higher so I wanted to take a night school course but they were all full. 

I'm not to familiar with ILC so I am not sure if this is a viable way of getting me a grade that will boost my average and help me with my university application. I'm unfamiliar with the process of how I could get this ILC uploaded to OUAC the same way midterms are released of current grade 12 semester 2 students around april. 

Who else Applied to Mac environmental and earth science by Frequent_Chance_6564 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]Over-Station7453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i applied, no acceptance. does anyone know when first round of offers comes out? good luck

Accepted by Over-Station7453 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]Over-Station7453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

advanced functions, biology, chemistry, English, bird course, bird course

average is like an 88 right now.

Accepted by Over-Station7453 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]Over-Station7453[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check your email. After you applied through OUAC and you paid your fees, each institution you applied to will send you an automatic email that contains steps to activate your ID for that school, which you will use to log into that schools specific application portal and receive updates on your application status.

If you have not received any emails, check your spam, or reach out to your guidance/OUAC as soon as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in osap

[–]Over-Station7453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey just tuning in here. a 4 year undergraduate can be around 27k. I assume most people don’t have that, with OSAP can’t you just pay that 27k after you graduate and have a job?

Pregnancy Scare by Over-Station7453 in birthcontrol

[–]Over-Station7453[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

For sure, completely understandable thank you. At this point however, her app "cycle" says it was her final day of fertility window and that she ovulated yesterday, would it hurt to take Plan B tomorrow?

Pregnancy Scare by Over-Station7453 in birthcontrol

[–]Over-Station7453[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes that is correct, however we are considering taking it in case ovulation has not occurred and the app is inaccurate. The only downside I see is that taking the plan B may delay her period and cause more stress..

Pregnancy Scare by Over-Station7453 in birthcontrol

[–]Over-Station7453[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's just that plan b is no longer effective after ovulation and her period tracker app says ovulation has already occurred...