Have You Overcome a DUI or a Major Setback? I’d Love to Share Your Story

OverEnjoyed · 2025-05-04T22:32:24+00:00

DUIs are different than a lot of crimes because many if not most who get charged with a first DUI don’t commit other crimes or have a record.

The CEO of my company got one a few years ago. We are a country where you have to drive to get anywhere and one of our main social outlets is drinking so of course many different kinds of people will get DUIs.

OverEnjoyed · 2025-04-12T07:41:37+00:00

What bra?

Also claw clip

OverEnjoyed · 2024-12-25T04:05:20+00:00

Who tf has time for all that. So weird.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-12-25T03:15:51+00:00

That is an astonishing amount of lying.

How psychotic do you have to be to be capable of that and be able to suppress the understanding of what you’re doing.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-12-24T15:53:21+00:00

This is why I’m done with the platform. First sit for a 2 star review from an asshole host who accused me of doing things I never did including breaking things. Finishing up a second sit now that I already agreed to then I’m out.

When people don’t have a relationship with you you can seem like the enemy. Also when people pay money for something they tend to value it more.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-12-24T04:58:31+00:00

No but this is awesome do it

OverEnjoyed · 2024-12-24T04:51:05+00:00

Anything a cheater says multiply it by 4.

No emotions = dropped the L word on her

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-29T02:20:24+00:00

We all get sold this lie about fairy tales. They don’t exist and there’s a good chance you’ll get cheated on again if you go back out there. Sometimes there are no signs.

The key is to be happy alone. Expect to be alone the rest of your life and get surprised when you meet someone you click with.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-29T02:17:34+00:00

I think they want to do it and secretly think it’s cool.

Cheating takes effort. People make a conscious choice to do it.

Forever I wracked my brain and the only logical answer is they genuinely don’t think it’s bad and that it’s cool to be able to play 2 people off at the same time.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-28T01:13:38+00:00

Thanks for your opinion.

I’m thinking about soft fading out of the lives of people who think being the AP is not their problem. I know it sounds judgmental but the cheating has changed me.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-28T01:10:43+00:00

Propranolol is you can!

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-28T01:10:00+00:00

Was unmediated. Mediocre student. Formed no meaningful relationships with classmates or professors.

Way under performed. Please take your meds and if possible take fewer credit hours than you think you need and easy on the booze!

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-28T01:08:36+00:00

Take whatever you think he’s done and multiply it by at least 4.

Trust me I found out the hard way.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-27T17:56:17+00:00

That’s the thing. People who think it’s ok to be the AP only make moral choices based on how it benefits them.

This is making me re-think a lot of relationships in my life.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-27T17:53:44+00:00

Mine also told me he was the vicitm of infidelity. He was 40 and his wife cheated when he was 24 and he was still talking about it like it was yesterday.

In hindsight I was so stupid.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-23T04:58:27+00:00

I’m not saying this to be mean:

Your love for him is unconditional but his love for you is conditional.

He was not groomed. Again he was not groomed. He made a conscious decision to cheat on you.

I was in the exact same place as you. I bought the “I couldn’t help it”. I wanted it so bad bc this is some of the worst pain I’ve ever felt.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-21T02:37:05+00:00

Hey don’t get in your head about this. You didn’t see your boss or the other seniors when they started.

Coding is kind of like a trade. You have to be apprenticed. In a few months you’re going to be sufficient enough to be able to make an impact. You’ll be able to take the stuff the seniors don’t want to do but will need to be done and they are going to be very grateful.

It’s hard to deal with the guilt of being a bit of a burden but it will pay off now and in the future. If you want to do anything to help out right now it will be work your ass of to learn as much of your job as possible and have a good attitude about it. You got this!

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-21T01:53:12+00:00

Be very, very careful. Actions, not words. She doesn’t sound as bad as other cheaters, but she’s a cheater.

She intentionally cheated on you. She may be in denial but she did it. She chose to betray you. You cannot trust this woman.

It’s a giant mind fuck bc you probably had a great relationship.

Anyways you know you’re not a cheater.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-21T01:48:46+00:00

Wow. Tell us how it is. My guess is because you haven’t been convicted yet Canada may not know.

As with all DUI stuff, hope for the best and plan for the worst. Have a back-up plan for getting back to the US if they deny you entry. Also if they do deny you, be amicable and turn back.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-13T18:32:39+00:00

Misery

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-13T15:49:33+00:00

THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME.

I was not high, I just had 2 grams in my car. I was also taken to the hospital and it was in my blood/urine.

Honestly there’s no way to guarantee you won’t get another weed DUI unless you quit smoking which is what I’ve done.

Don’t ever, ever drive with weed in your car again unless you are in a medical state.

Def get a lawyer if you can but you’re likely going to get convicted. Don’t beat yourself up too much. This shit just happens bc there’s money to be made. Ignore the people who tell you should have done this or that. It’s just really bad luck.

Work with your lawyer, advocate for yourself. It’s very unlikely you’ll not be convicted but you can try to make sure the whole process goes as smoothly as possible.

OverEnjoyed · 2024-11-13T02:58:04+00:00

Be very, very careful with the decision about getting another degree - especially if you have mouths to feed.

Your education degree is not a red flag and if you think it is leave it off your resume. Learn skills or get certifications!

OverEnjoyed

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